Lady drivers --- do you think they drive more carefully and safely than men?

Philippines
January 7, 2010 11:19am CST
From newspapers, I have always come across advertisements of cars for sale. In our place, I have observed that captions such as "lady-driven" or "in good condition (lady-driven)" are mostly included there. Why do you think these captions are considered important by the seller? Do you think lady drivers drive more carefully and more safely than men? Do you think they are better drivers than men?
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16 responses
• Pamplona, Spain
9 Jan 10
Hiya MMT, Women Drivers are not always the best Drivers but of course we are really more careful generally. Men Drivers can be equally the same in fact I find the Men Drivers have two extremes rarely the middle one they are too nice or too nasty specially when it snows.
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
Hi LAI, Good and bad drivers can be observed in men and women, too. We can also find careful and better drivers in both men and women. Skill counts a lot. It also comes with the number of years' experience in driving. Most of all, it behooves on the driver himself to value and safeguard his life and property at all times.
• Pamplona, Spain
10 Jan 10
Hiya MMT, There are many Drivers out today who will not give you a chance to cross the Road properly they make you run for it and it´s very slippery underfoot I would fine everyone of these Drivers if I had my way they are both men and women very impatient but they forget that they also have only two feet like everyone else and are also very vulnerable without their four wheels. This is one of the annoying things about any Driver in particular. When I have been out I let them cross the Road at their own pace and the others behind me can whistle as they pip their Carhorns or Hooters or whatever.
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
Sometimes that happens here, too. Some are really inconsiderate or just too careless.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
9 Jan 10
Yes!I too have heard about this fact and there is truth to a great extent.Ladies tend to drive softly and smoothly than a male driver.She will not like to drive rashly or at over speed.She enjoys driving more and hence don't treat the car as just a machine.She loves the car as her extension and so she will keep it in good condition. But this is generalized version about lady driven cars.There are exceptions that we should not forget.I know one lady in a training institute who challenges men on road with her fierce driving.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
10 Jan 10
Yes!Gender cannot be taken as the basis to decide the skill of a driver.But we can generalize the driving style by genders.That is why we can say male drivers are rough and tough and female drivers are gentle and soft.And we can't deny there are exceptions,as you have told.
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Very rightly said. Thanks, Srganesh.
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
Hi Srganesh, Most women are known to drive slow. Most of them drive patiently. Maybe that is why we get the notion that they drive more carefully and safely than men. But, we cannot also deny the fact that there are some women who are as bad drivers as men as there are also good and careful men drivers than women. Gender cannot, therefore, be taken as the basis. Skill and experience count a lot.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 10
Well I used to believe they where but lately I am not to sure at all as I have seen a few that can be just as bad as Men I drive and I try to stay as safe as I can, but lately I have come across Women Drivers that seem to think they own the road Ok I have not come across to many of them but they are out there I think the reason we are safer Drivers we are not urged by racing, showing of or being daring
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Hi Gabs, Drivers should have utmost concern for life and safety. If they always bear this in mind, they are not doing this for themselves but for others as well. I have seen women drivers who are as bad as men are, too. We cannot always say that women are more careful drivers. There are always exceptions just as there are for men. Drivers should always bear in mind the risks and danger that driving entails. They should always be careful on the road.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Jan 10
When I compare my husband and myself, I will say that ladies are easier on cars than men are. I am typically never in the car without my children, so I am always extremely cautious when I am driving because I don't want anything to happen to the children. I am also very smooth when it comes to shifting and accelorating and such. My husband on the other hand, at times you would think that he is in a NASCAR race. He is hard on the pedals and he is hard on the shifter. However, I don't necessarily think that this should be a key point when buying a used car.
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Hi Dorannmwin, I admire your driving skills. I have stopped driving because of a very unfortunate incident and since then, I had this phobia to drive. My oldest son drives and I am always not comfortable riding with him. My late husband drives so well and was so careful even on long trips. I think men and women are alike when it comes to driving. We find careful and good drivers as well as the worse drivers in them.
@Agoenxz (551)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 10
I Dont think so... its all about feelings and their behaviour... you know what mans are.. and usually women have smoother and or softer feelings... atleast thats my point of view.
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Hi Agoenxz, The driver's feelings towards safety and concern for life is important. Their behavior towards this has a lot to do with it. Drivers should also be emotionally and physically stable to drive. As a driver, you are expected to exercise the diligence and care like "a good father of the family". High regard for life and safety should be of utmost concern.
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
As per my observation, lady drivers seldom meet accidents maybe because they are more careful than men. They are also good in maintaining cars because they don't like it to become dirty and less presentable. So most cars owned by lady drivers are better than those owned by men.
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
Hi Triplejazzm, Generally, lady-driven vehicles here are well kept. Women generally like to keep everything clean, including their cars. Women drivers take care of their cars and they are less aggressive in driving. They generally exercise patience in waiting for their turn in traffic. There are exceptions, though.
@tawny_24 (341)
• United States
8 Jan 10
I think that a lot of females are either totally cluesless, talking on the phone putting on make up and that is not careful or safe. Women of every age group do this. Then there are the ones who are highstrung and emotional in heavy traffic or when lost, this is also dangerous. I was once almost side swiped by a middle aged woman who was obviously overwhelmed by the traffic (which was not that bad), she was slowly and cautiously changing lanes wich makes sense theoretically. However, we were on the interstate, with a limit 75 wich meant that everyone was going at least that fast and most were going faster than that. So to brake and then slowly merge meant that people had to swerve to miss her. Not smart. See my discussion have you ever been involved in a traffic accident for more examples of this. Also a lot of females cannot parallel park, and often times because they don't have the spacial sensory acuity that men often do, it is often women swerving and braking short. And god forbid that you end up within proximity of a woman with a couple of bratty kids in the back seat. You can always tell by the swerving and braking. ONce again I sound like a total traitor to my gender, but I happen to be one who can parallel park, I don't eat, put on make up, or talk or text on my cell, and I always wear my seat belt.
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi Tawny_24, Good that we don't find women of that type in our place. Unlike where you are, it is always the men who are doing that. They say we have the most skillful and worst drivers here. The public utility jeepney drivers are the best example. They just change lanes anytime. You have to be a very good driver here to at least "read the minds" of drivers in front and to your sides. Some of my friends who have been driving in other countries won't even dare drive our busy streets, lol. There are killings arising from traffic misunderstanding. Two celebrated cases involve men who are quick to rage and who are very impatient. Most women drivers here are "behaved".
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
7 Jan 10
As a whole, I don't think men and women drive any differently. There are good male drivers and there are good female drivers. There are bad male drivers and there are bad female drivers. I don't think your gender has any say in what type of driver you are!
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi Trickiwoo, Yes, you are right. Gender has nothing to do with it. In any skill or talent, one excels or is better than the other. It differs from person to person and not because of gender. Most people may have the notion that women drive more carefully because most of them are not as aggressive as the men. Most women drivers are patient. Except, of course of some who really aren't.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
8 Jan 10
I don't believe that women are more skillful. Some are; some are not. Skill usually comes with experience. Women are most frequently more patient than men. Therefore, cases of road rage can usually be attributed to men. It's not a woman who lays on her horn the very second the light turns green.
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi Bellis, I agree with you. There are skillful women drivers as there are men, too. I cannot even say most taxi drivers (I have yet to see a woman taxi driver) are good and careful drivers. I always take a taxi everyday and I can just compare each one of them. Yes, women are more patient and they are not quick tempered as some men are. There had been incidents in the past that due to a traffic misunderstanding one driver got off and shot the other, killing the latter. While driving, most women aren't as aggressive as men are.
@HansonFan (1653)
• United States
8 Jan 10
As a woman myself I would like to say yes but in all honesty I dont think gender has anything to do with how a person takes care of their vehicle. It depends on the personality. A dare-devil is going to speed all the time, a responsible person would make sure the car gets an oil change and other maintenance when needed, etc. I take good care of my car because I like it and its the right thing to do. I dont speed most of the time, I get the maintenance done, but I dont wash it as much as I probably should. Everyone is different so gender really doesnt matter, especially these days. Women can know just as much and do the work on cars if they have a real inclination to do so. i dont, but I know some who do.
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi HansonFan, I agree with you. Gender has nothing to do with how careful and how good you drive. I guess it all depends on skill and experience. There are women and men, too who "understand" their cars. If they do, they should first make sure that the car is in a very good condition before driving. It is always important to do this for everyone's safety.
@nautilus33 (1827)
7 Jan 10
No, I don't! And the science proofs it- women have a stronger marginal sight than men, and they can be absent easier and more often than men. That's why I think and KNOW, that women are not better drivers than men are!!!
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi Nautilus33, I don't think ALL women for that matter. There are very good women drivers among ALL drivers as there are good male drivers, too. Of course, there are bad drivers in men, too. Women drivers may be thought of being better drivers may be because SOME of them aren't as aggressive as men are. MOST women drivers are patient and drive slow.
• United States
8 Jan 10
I will give the lady-drivers credit to maybe driving better, especially traveling a long distance. But please keep them off the cell phones, especially at stop lights. The light changes, and some still sit there talking, and texting away.
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi GreatLife4You, Here in our place, I seldom see women who talk over their cellphones while driving. It is usually men who I see using their phones. Women here are more careful and they driver slower. There are SOME better women drivers as there are SOME better men, too. Skill and experience are important things in driving.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
7 Jan 10
There i would definately say NO. Unfortunately in my country some lady drivers are actually a danger to others. If they do not talk on the phone while driving, they actually do their make-up. I mean really, you should concentrate on where you are going, not what you are doing. And believe me, it is not easy for me to say all of this. But unfortunately i am not a hypocrate, and i am tired of these women doing just what they want on the roads.
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi Saphrina, Well, it happens in men, too. Some of them talk over the phone while driving. Some even are "texting". This happens to my oldest son. I have always and continually advised him against doing it. Then, he bumped on the vehicle in front of him maybe because he was texting at that time. He vehemently denied it though. I know for sure that he did. Everyone should be aware of the risks and dangers of driving. Full concentration is important.
• France
8 Jan 10
Nah, I think we're worst drivers than men!! I admit it.
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
Hi Lilmuchang, It has been your experience about women drivers that made you say they are the worst drivers, lol. I am sad that they are considered worst in your place. Women drivers here drive slow and always are traffic-abiding citizens. This, too, we can find in men. Women and men have their own share of the good and bad drivers. Skill and experience are important in most things that we do, driving being one.
@missweety (626)
• Latvia
7 Jan 10
Hello! I think ladies drive more carefull. I am a lady driver as well but I don't hink that I drive more carefull or better than man. However, I think old people drive quite bad. They have bigger reaction time and that it quite dangerous on the road. As I am not on a road for a very long time, i hope I will imporve my skills with time and be better than any man
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
Hi Missweety, Yes, most of the lady drivers may be careful in driving. There are men who are just as careful as the women, too. A driver's skills count a lot, too. Drivers need to be alert. They should think of safety not just for themselves but for the passengers, too. These are things that both women and men can do
@cherhong (67)
• Singapore
7 Jan 10
Yes, i think lady drivers more carefully and safely than men. especially when the baby inside the car. for lady, they will drive more slowly than man, think this is a reason more safely than men.
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
Hi Cherhong, Generally, ladies drive slowly than men. They are not as aggressive as men. They tend to wait for their turn. They don't usually overtake especially in heavier traffic. I think that all drivers though drive safely especially with babies on board.