Do you think Miley calling parents 'selfish' is correct?

@cbeee3 (2061)
India
January 8, 2010 6:01am CST
I don't really care about Miley Cyrus. But she made me think about a larger issue at hand. It is related to parenting. Read this and tell me if you think what she says is correct or that Miley Cyrus is wrong. If you think it is correct why do you think so? Similarly, if you think she is wrong, what is your argument? http://bit.ly/5fc7Fc Have a blessed weekend! ;)
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@esjosh (912)
• India
11 Jan 10
Miley's age is very critical. 17 years. And she is having huge glory,money,fame.... At this age it is very difficult for some one to swallow this huge success and digest it and become used to it. If some further scandals from is get reveal, I will surly not surprised. Or some one else do such blunder than also I will not surprised. I am not justifying her, what she had done is absolutely wrong but the media is giving air to the fire. Okey okey let's stop about digging some ones did!! Let's discuss in +ve tone. Now media must show the reactions also publicly and as specially to Miley also that the public is not liking her statement. So she will learns a lesson and will think 100 times before delivering such thing.
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@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
17 Jan 10
I think the onus falls on Miley as well as her parents. She is still not an 'adult' technically speaking, so I think her parents should help her realize what her actions can do to other kids her age.
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@esjosh (912)
• India
18 Jan 10
Exactly the same I wanted to narrate!!!
@hvedra (1619)
8 Jan 10
I think she has a very valid point. Parents can't allow their kids to adopt such manufactured role models and then complain about the influence they might have on their kids. I don't like the whole Hannah Montana thing because I think it is a very bad thing for kids to aspire to but it IS the responsibility of the parents to decide what their kids are exposed to. Unfortunately most of them think the TV is a babysitter and assume that if something is marketed as a kids show that it is going to be good/wholesome and safe - rather than seing that it is selling merchandise and "lifestyle" and exists to make money.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
8 Jan 10
No matter how hard parents try they cannot control their kids. Sure, parents can guide them in the right direction, but it doesn't mean that their kids will always go that way. In a way it's kinda too bad that they can't. Because if parents could have that much control over their kids then Miss Cyrus certainly wouldn't be as famous as she is. Then where would she be? If anything she should stop blaming the parents and start taking responsibility for her actions. Because like it or not she is a role model to kids out there, and proper role models don't act the way she's been behaving. That's all there is to it.
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@hvedra (1619)
11 Jan 10
Parents can't control their kids? Why not? Hannah Montana is aimed at preteens so I don't see why these kids are getting to choose or even dictate what they are exposed to and influenced by. At the end of the day there is an off switch on the TV and parents CAN monitor what their kids watch if they are willing to do so. If they are letting their kids watch rubbish and absorb bad values it is THEIR fault that their kids adopt them. Some parents do monitor what their kids watch, do sit down and explain to the kids why HM is junk and so on. It isn't a case of can or can't it's more shan't and won't.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
8 Jan 10
Miss Cyrus shouldn't be one to talk. As stated in the article she is a role model for young girls, though I for one don't see why. From what I've noticed the older she gets the more annoying she becomes. However, the fact remains that there are girls that look up to her. Which means that she should be setting a good example and not be flaunting her stuff for all to see...especially with her being a kid herself. I wouldn't be surprised if her father, Billy Ray, gets a lot of flack about this latest little stunt she's pulling. Because parents like him wouldn't allow daughters like her to act the way she does, at least not at her age anyway. She's a spoiled little rich girl and if it wasn't for her daddy she wouldn't be famous to begin with, no matter what he says. And if anyone is selfish it is her, not the parents that are upset over this. This girl needs to start using the brains God gave her. Either that or she needs some discipline in her life because she obviously needs it. Maybe then she'll finally become a role model that parents and kids can be proud of. Happy mylotting!
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@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
17 Jan 10
Sacmom & HOdaDog- U both rock. I loved ur responses. So candid and from the heart Loved it.LOL
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 10
I think she's a teenager, and they often say immature things. But as far as parents, where the heck were her parents when those pictures were taken?
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@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
17 Jan 10
I totally agree with you on that. Since she is technically still not an "adult", her parents are responsible and they should certainly have taken the call! Thanks Dawn
@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
8 Jan 10
No, I don't think the parents are being selfish at all because children need good role models they can look up to. The problem is, most of these movie stars and singers are not good role models. They do so many things that they shouldn't. I always liked Miley Cyrus, myself, and I was shocked when I read this and watched the video about the dancing. I didn't think she would ever do anything like this! I must admit that I didn't pick very good role models when I was younger, either. I remember the photo shoots for Vanity Fair but I thought she was sorry for that and I had forgiven her. Now, I don't know what to think. I've always been a big fan of her daddy's, though. I've often wondered how her parents felt about the Vanity Fair shoots. As a matter of fact, I used to be in Billy Ray Cyrus's fan club and I went to the fan club picnic in 2000. I got to meet Billy Ray and Miley there! Miley was just 7 years old at the time and I thought she was so cute! I remember when she was born, too. You just never know how these kids are going to turn out, though! Kathy.
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
17 Jan 10
Yes, this is true. Like I said, she was just 7 when I met her and they can change when they get to be teenagers. Kathy.
@cbeee3 (2061)
• India
17 Jan 10
Very good points. The thing is, Miley is 17 and already says she knows kids look at her as a role model. Then she does something like this. Then she says, parents need are 'selfish' and blame her. She says she knows that kids see her as a role model and then something like this happens. She can't have it both ways. Thanks Kath! ;)
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@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
6 Feb 10
I think Miley is wrong. The parents are not being selfish. Kathy.