do you get jealous when your man look for a sexy woman?
By rosey19
@rosey19 (951)
Philippines
January 8, 2010 8:47pm CST
It cannot be avoided that when you are walking together with your husband or boyfriend you can meet a very beautiful and sexy woman and suddenly your man take a second look as if without blinking his eyes. How you feel about it and how will you react about his actions? Do you mind asking him what he feels about the girl or never ask him anyway?
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9 responses
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
9 Jan 10
yes, i get jealous. it is a man's normal response to look at a woman. once, ok twice. he better get running............my man should be my man and have consideration and respect for me only when i am with him and hopefully when i am not with him
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
as we all know, men are visual animals. so therefore, they would love to look at beautiful things, mostly, women.
to answer your question. honestly, sometimes. but not to the extent that i will get hurt or what. i just tease him and i'll say that "look at that sexy girl". and you know what, i really love his reply. he will always reassure me that i am the most sexiest and beautiful in his eyes.
@shivamkapila (764)
• India
9 Jan 10
no their is no need to feel jealous as we are seeing sexy women and praise the look she creates in herself we need to praise her instead of feeling jealous
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@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
no, it won't matter to me..anyway he's my man..he can look for that sexy woman a while, a seconds but he'll be going home still with me. but i never been to this situation, if that happens...I won't bother to ask anything. Not a big deal for me.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
9 Jan 10
I do not mind at all. The most important thing is that he is still going home with yoy. We in our country always say. 'You can look at the menu, BUT you may not order anything.' As long as he only look at her and not compair you to her or visa versa, everything is fine. I believe a man have t have the guts to look at other woman when his wife or girlfriend is with him. Then he will know that you love and trust him. That is important. And one more thing, Jealousy is evil, it can destroy any relationship.
@xxHellsxxangelxx (106)
• Netherlands
9 Jan 10
I would take a look at the woman too. But that doesn't mean he doesn't like his wife. He is just considering his options.
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@Allie_xoxo (1063)
• Canada
9 Jan 10
he might take a second look and can take a third if he likes, but he's heading home with me.
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@chikahdorah (269)
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
I do get jealous a lot. Well, I guess that just show how selfish I am. What is mine is mine.
I don't know but I can't help it. I mean, there is someone who is better than we are and we can't do anything about it but accept the fact. But everybody has that inner feeling of insecurities. oh pls. everybody! don't deny that. We are just human. We feel anything a normal person could feel.
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@UpsideDownPineapple (643)
• United States
9 Jan 10
I guess it depends on how much he cares about looks. Is he thinking "I wish I were with her right now, instead of my date..." That would be an issue because, if the opportunity arises, he may possibly cheat.
So, I wouldn't say jealous, more like worried like, "who am I with right now?!" lol
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@rosey19 (951)
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
I've talked to some guys and they said that it is normal with them and they are not serious of how their actions are telling. But for me i can't help but think it negatively, they can do it with my presence how much more if i am not beside him i think it's more than staring! lol
