How do can you forgive your mother if she made you a great deal of wrong?

@iona84 (18)
Romania
January 10, 2010 6:14am CST
Two years ago I was pregnant and also at the faculty, staying with my husband at my mom's house. During and after the weeding my mom was like crazy (she gets angry very fast and says and does ugly things); she threw my wedding cake and after the wedding we got into an argument she started screeming and mu husband intervined. She told him to get out of her house so we left to my mother in low's house nad had to leave the Faculty, my doctor and my friends. It was very difficult to forgive her...i will probably never forget what she did to me... What would you do if you were me?
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@chase717 (65)
• United States
17 Jan 10
That would be hard to deal with, but I beleive that no matter what your mother does that you should forgive her. I didn't say forget about it. If you hold on to the negative to long, you will become a bitter person yourself. If you think positive, your situation will change. Sometimes when we change our thoughts; it changes our lives.
@Sky347 (33)
• United States
17 Jan 10
I am so sorry about what you are going through with your mother. I have been fortunate to have a mother that cares for me so much. She sacrifices constantly for every member of our family without question or second thought. We truly are not worthy of her. Although, there are times when she shows another face that is not so pleasant to be around. In those instances I have to be careful to not disrespect and accept it as her just being herself, and that she's not perfect. We all have our bad attitude moments, and some more radical than others. Remember that she is your mother, and even if she acts crazy at times she still deserves your utmost respect and honor. You don't have to sit there and take it, but pick your battles carefully and be honest with your mother about your feelings. In the end, forgiveness is more for your piece of mind than for her behaviour. Don't hold a grudge, and try to keep working on improving commmucication with your mother so as to avoid future incidences like this one.
• China
10 Jan 10
U have to find out why ur mom do this crazy things to u,no one will do such crazy things with no reason.U and ur mom should sit down and have a converstation to make it clear.No talk will make the misunderstanding even wrose.There is nothing in the world can't be solved,she's ur mother anyway.Hope u can figure it out.Good luck,cheers.
@Java09 (3075)
• United States
10 Jan 10
I forgive people for what they do,no matter what it is.I go by the teachings of Jesus,and He taught to forgive your enemies,and whoever wrongs you,so that's what I live by.