marry at tomorrow.

@bingchen (1119)
China
January 10, 2010 7:22am CST
i would register with my boyfriend tomorrow and become real couple.we decide that we could not prepare my wedding and invite our family to be together and share the dinner.i dont know the meaning about marriage.because i dont care about my marriage,i know i dont care anything when i marry him.i hope that i can start a new life after marrying him and earn money for my family,if someone said i can be happy after marrying.maybe i can be happy with him or not.but at least he could not prevent what i want to do,i have right to select my favorate life.it is meaning for marriage.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
10 Jan 10
This must be a cultural thing, I don't understand the purpose of this marriage. Is it to get away from your family's control? Does a married woman have more freedom than a single one? What are a husband's rights? I need a little more information on this subject.
• China
10 Jan 10
Hello bingchen, congratulations to you first, you must feel very complecated in your mind tonight, excited, nervous... but you try to use peace to cover all of these emotions. Don't worry, trust the one you choose, he will make you happy in future. And I am expecting the day I register with my BF...
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• India
22 Jan 10
Thats a great news. New year and a new start. Marriage is one of the the most amazing things happen to you. It makes it more meaningful and blissful when you marry someone whom you love. You are so.... lucky. I wish you both live happily and understand, support and encourage eachother in the best possible way.
• China
12 Jan 10
Oh,that's a good thing.Congratulations to you.You should trust your husband,you will lead a happy life.As you have informed that marriage cannot limit what you want to do,I also agree with you,but sometimes you have to consider for your husband.Wish you have happy marriage!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
12 Jan 10
Congratulations on taking the next step and making your relationship with your boyfriend permanent. This is something that you have every right to be proud of and you may not notice a lot of difference in your life at first, it will quite possibly take a while to sink in for you. I'm sorry that you aren't able to arrange for all of your family to be able to celebrate with you, but hopefully with yor husband and yourself you will be able to make great memories of their own.
@musicque (46)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Marriage works like dancing tango together.Both must rhythmically move in harmony with the music played.It should not just be taken plainly as a ceremony in life but a deep commitment to the person we UNCONDITIONALLY love.This seriously is life, my friend. Not a fantasy or a feel-good movie. It's reality. Taking a full step with the man we choOse to marry must be thoughT of a million times. See if your hands fit together for a very long time.DECIDE WITH AN OPEN MIND AND HEART.UNDERSTAND why u like such kind of life WITH HIM and when you Know why THEN that means...YOU ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER...FOREVER. I believe that WE all have also the choice/power to write our own book of destiny. I WILL HAVE TO SAY CONGRATULATIONS TOO.GOD BLESS U BOTH.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Jan 10
hi bingchen I se nd my best wishes to you and your boyfriend. take the last step and be so happy my new friend, I am wishing you and yours all the happiness a good marriage will bring, you will be a lovely bride and a wonderful wife, he should be very proud to be getting such a wonderful person. I am sending you a dozen hugs from hatley, be confident and you will be very happy with him. congratulations to you both. Happy Honeymoon,.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I do not understand about arranged marriages. We do not do that in the US. Is this man someone your parents chose for you? I feel sad that you are not happy about marrying this particular man, but I have heard that love can grow in arranged marriages. It sounds like it means some kind of freedom to you to marry? I hope you end up happy. Karen
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Shouldn't true love be the only reason to get married??? Stand your ground.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
hello bingchen, First...CONGRATULATIONS!!! And WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST! You will surely know the meaning of marriage once you change vows with your boyfriend. It's hard to explain the meaning of marriage,becoz,in every country,the culture and tradition differs a lot. Here in my country,marriage doesn't make any big difference. The family ties and support will always there,your lifestyle won't change much. You can still work and pursue your career,depending on your choice,or what you and your husband decide(if you will stay a full pledge housewife or work till you had a baby) You family and his family can still visits you or even stay for days in house,and so with friends. But,in other countries...it is different.So,i can't tell what's the meaning of marriage with regards on your part my friend. Right now,enjoy your moment,and be the most beautiful bride in the world tomorrow.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Married is the perfect bond of union you can't decide of what you want because once you married the husband is the lead so you must follow your husband not your own so that you became one law that's the married if you don't like that situation then your not capable to in in the married life.
@esjosh (912)
• India
11 Jan 10
Congratulations!!! When and Where is the celebrations!!!!! May God bless you dear!!! I wish your life goes as beautiful as your eyes, in your profile picture!!!!!!!!
• China
11 Jan 10
Dear my friend, it seems like you just make deals with yourself, you want to exchange the single for a freedom life, is it right? i just wander to know, if you love him? if you really want to string along with him in your rest life? If you can do anything for him?
• India
10 Jan 10
Congratulations Miss Bingchen will be soon Mrs. ... I wish you can make a happy married life. Don't lose yourself with new relation and of course you will have a new life start from the marriage. I hope you will do well in your married life and your husband will be understanding and cooperative and will try to keep you like a princess...angel... Good Luck into a new life Miss....for last time.... from tomorrow Mrs.
• China
10 Jan 10
Congratulations,bingchen.I'm glad for you and I wish you have a perfect good marriage life.Since I read what you said ,I believe you would be a good wife surely.You're not alone from tomorrow.Best wishes for you and your fiance.