Do you always listen to other people's advises?
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
January 10, 2010 11:03am CST
I will be grateful if someone give me good advises. I will listen to them carefully, and thought it myself. If there is a good suggestion, I will remember it, and I might follow it as well. While if it was not a good piece of advise, I might just discard it, and I won't make any commment on it.
One of my co - workers always give us some advises on everything, because he work there the longest. I won't say all of them are bad, at least 1 out of 10 is good advise. All other advises, after we listen to it, we just laugh about it.
Sometimes, the situation is different from person to person. Some people might apply to their situation to other people, but that doesn't mean it works for you, it might work for others.
5 responses
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
10 Jan 10
Listening is very important for us as through listening only one can choose or find difference between right and wrong. listening is very useful as with the help of it a person can make useful contacts with one another. we can also give views as to what we think is right or wrong from our context. So in this point of view form good advices develop good relations with mutual development of human sphere.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
10 Jan 10
thank you for your nice gesture might something else that can be wrote or told to one another as of its appearance can come handy for both of us and could lead to both of us beneficiaries in further existence together.
@olepmis (840)
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
I listen to advices even if it is unsolicited and then forget it. If the advice is applicable to a problem, I will follow it. Unsolicited advice may good or bad so we should ask advice from a respected person whose is known for his good advices.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
10 Jan 10
I agreed with you. I got these unsolicited advises a lot lately, and it just bothering me sometimes, if that is not apply to my own situation. I just want to walk away from that person, and not to listen, it seems he want everyone to listen to him no matter whether his advise works or not.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
10 Jan 10
I agree with you on this point of view that take advices of your elders always if you have any differences in your mind as compared to that of the individual has . Sometimes we don't like the views of the other person in that context elderly person who has seen this world better than we have can show us the proper side of life through advice of his .
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
I listen to advises.it just depends on me if I follow them or not.I think of what people have told me.I will think of the advises I can do,and weed out the ones I can't do.it really depends on the person if you'll follow it.
@his0yir (258)
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10 Jan 10
It depends on who gives advice and under what kind of circumstance is this advice meant for. My parents are keen to advise me on anything but it doesn't mean they can give the best solution to my problems. Sometimes listening to people's advice is more for the emotional support than following it per se. I think sometimes everyone has to learn to judge situations and make decisions by themselves. I would rather stand on my on feet when facing problems although I would consider other people's advice as references.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
10 Jan 10
My friend I disagree with your point that parents don't give righteous solutions.I know there are some problems that cannot be shared with parents but when you discuss some problems with them,I think,they are the best in it.And there are only parents who can give you best judgement of anything.Not because the reason they are our parents but they are more experienced than us.And we are their bloods so genetically they know what their kids up to.Indeed we learn from our own judgments and we take our decisions only but sometimes implementing on other advices is quite effective than ours.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
a good advise comes from a person with whom you sort of admire and respect, mostly elders with knowledge and experience who are more capable of giving a sound and worthy perspective of the problems in hand.
