What are you jealous of?

@olisaur (1931)
United States
January 10, 2010 1:55pm CST
Everyone who's human is jealous of something, so what are you jealous of? For me, its tall, skinny girls. I'm 5'3", and about 100 lbs, and a little curvy not stick skinny. I've always wanted to be a model [with a passion], but I've been turned down a lot because of my height. I always get this burning, envious feeling whenever I see tall girls with a thin, straight, slender build. The day after my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, he was publically flriting with a tall, skinny girl; they ended up getting together not long after that. That was totally stepping on my heart right after he broke it. And the guy I was most recently interested in is dating a girl who is 5'10" with a 30A bustline. It's so frustrating...why do I always go for guys that do that? w
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@agito121 (177)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Jan 10
I'm happy about my height but my body, not very... even though i'm a big guy but i weight quite a lot, i do a lot of sports but the one thing i dont like is watching all those skinny people stuffing themselves with chips and candy and never gain weight while i have to work my butt off just to lose some. That is my biggest jealously but i have a lot of skinny friends so i'm not really that bothered about it, it's because my metabolism is slow that's why i gain weight with the food i eat.
@online_jon (1478)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Well, I'm jealous to those people who really study hard and sleep late at night while studying. How I wish I can able to do that because I want to give time in study so I can able to have a good grade with my subject.
@aconites (769)
• United States
11 Jan 10
believe me its no fun .. my sister is one of those people she can't do nothing before she finish he study and i hate the time of the exams .. we didn't see her any more she just lock her self in her room .. and of course we have to watch TV extra law because she need to consecrate.. she complained to my mom the other day and she was saying that she feel that she didn't live her childhood like the other kids .. she used to study first then go to play and by the time she finish her study its dark and all the kids went to their houses .. its pretty sad but in the end she used to get the highest scores and every year she was the first on her class I'm not that type i would play first watch TV and remember my test late at night and study for it in night and in the morning in the way to school..i just liked to have fun first and study later . but i tell you whom i was jealous of, those kind of extra smart student that they don't spend a lot of time studying but they get the highest scores ..
• United States
10 Jan 10
I am one who is jealous of my mate spending time else where. I know it sounds crazy but,it's very true. I want him with me all the time. I also like to have my space in relationships. I just get jealous all the time with this.
@aconites (769)
• United States
11 Jan 10
i get some of those feeling but because i don't have nothing better to do .. i remember this time time i had a friend that i used to spend a lot of time hanging with her and stay till 1 after mid night and not even phone my husband for once ..but when im in the house doing nothing and bored of corse i get like where are you ,why you late ,don't take too long and say stuff like that .. i think my problem is i dont have a balance in my relationship case i'm a Libra .. so one side have to tip either im clingy or don't care
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
I sometimes feel jealous when i see great family, going to church, going shopping, picnics, road trip,or eating outside, like restaurant or at the fast food chain. I wish someday we'll do that,. I feel incomplete because my husband works abroad, we don't have the chance to do such things. oh..how frustrating. those guys really have a great taste.he he joke. maybe you have a high standard in choosing a guy?..Good luck. happy mylotting.
• United Arab Emirates
11 Jan 10
i'm not jealous but of all those people who have a six pack, what is the point of them? they're like everywhere in the movies and stuff, you dont need six pack to look good, i know some people who doesnt have any and they look great. I'm not a hater just curious.
@Java09 (3080)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I do not get jealous,when someone tells me about something good that happened to them,I give my blessings.I definately am not jealous of looks,I'm happy with myself and looks are not my top priority to be worried about.I go by what the Bible tells me and I just don't feel I care what the rest of the world even thinks of me.God looks at a person"s heart and humans look on the outside.
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
i ain't jealous on girls. surprisingly it's the male friends of my husband whom he spends time going out at times in some occasions. time is more important to me..weird..:)
• United States
11 Jan 10
For me it has to be my siblings. I got an older brother, a younger brother, and a younger sister. I feel looking back on my childhood now that they had and got so much more than I did. Being the middle child in a family with 3 other siblings was extremely tough. Having to live up to the expectations of what he accomplished. I went to the same school he did so many of the teachers expected things that at the time I just wasn't capable of doing because I tried to hard. My younger brother needed constant attention because he is semi disabled. Then the youngest, my little sister is the princess of the family and gets away with so many things on top of getting the most attention out of anyone. I sometimes still get jealous and hate looking back on my childhood because I felt my parents should have done more for me and not require me to grow up as fast as I did. However, I have learned to use that jealousy in a positive way and it has been working out great for me. I wouldn't be who I am today without experiencing what I did and I'm sure one day if I end up having kids of my own I can learn from that mistake. Also to sorry about the whole modeling thing. Personally myself someone of your height is good for me since I'm only 5'8 I tend to look for a smaller girl. Eventually someone will come along for you.
@aconites (769)
• United States
11 Jan 10
i feel jealous when i see a great couples together or couples in love .. me and my husband are not like that because im a desperately romantic and he is the type that doest like show his feeling .. even a lot of times i knew that he said something nice about me from family or friends ..i dont get to hear it from him ..how would you feel when you enter the room and one of your sister in low said ..oh your husband was just telling us how he felt when he first met you or he felt that you are the one for him and he should not let you go and stuff like that .. he pumper me and say nice stuff behind my back not into my face .
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
i am jealous of other people who have good life but i figure it out now they work so hard to obtain it and that is why i prefer to work hard down to the top to have a life like they have.
@allknowing (85914)
• India
11 Jan 10
I get jealous of people who love their routine and do it with joy. I hate those mundane routines but do it all the same. Procrastination is my strongest weakness and I envy those who do not put off their routines.
@Buchi_bulla (8304)
• India
11 Jan 10
I too feel jealous with thin people, who eat so much daily (in my office), and still remain thin. If I just look at the sweet also, I put extra kilos. Anyway, first you start loving your own self. You think, you are beautiful, your height itself is bring grace for you and develop confidence in yourself. That confidence in you, is showin in your face and will add some beauty to your face and attract people. Do not bother about the boy friend, who went behind another girl for height's sake. Such people will not show real love on you so it is better they left.
@Torunn (5499)
• Norway
10 Jan 10
I would really like to be able to sing nicely, so I'm jealous of everyone who can. I have played piano and French horn, and I've tried to sing but I can't sing in tune! I do hear that I don't sing in tune though, so I never sing so anyone can hear me. I could maybe learn it better by practising, but I don't think it would be very pretty.
• Romania
10 Jan 10
xD I'm quite sorry to hear your story... For me I've been jealous just 2 times in my life... Once when the boy I liked hugged another girl, he almost made me cry, but he saw my expression and stopped hugging her and came after me. And second when I was introduced to a wealthy girl, that was so popular and everyone like her... and... you get the point how can't you be jealous of her... :|