***Beauty And The Beast?***Could You?***

oh most certainly. that used to be one of my favorite stories. and the funny thing is, my last hubby was like that. not very good looking but a wonderful man. i'd been so abused by others that his kindness changed my life. i didnt think he was good looking at all when we met, but fell for him and married him and started thinking he looked pretty good. if he hadnt passed away i know we'd still be very happy together.

I never was attracted to a man who was physically unattractive so I guess that's an answer. However, I did want to share what one woman told me. She said she married an ugly man and thought at the time that he must have a beautiful soul. She then said, "Boy, was I wrong! He was just as ugly inside as he was outside."

I have seen the Film and I loved it I always say look deeper do not always look at the outside as it can be very deceiving Beauty comes from the inside not the outside

Truly this proves that beauty is in the eye of the beholder...for me it's usually something that attracts me...personality etc...and then they grow on me....I haven't ever just fell in love with someone regardless of the looks...but the more you like them the better looking they get. It's strange that you started this discussion....my oldest sister's daughter just moved from Minnesota to Tennessee with a guy she hasn't known for that long. My niece is college educated, never married....tall and skinny and very attractive...her new beau is short,chunky....been married two times...is not attractive to most people....and my sister says...I don't get it! Well my younger sister and I agree.....that he must have some magic...like treating her with respect and giving her the things she needs emotionally......so to my sister he is a beast....to my neice...he is her knight in shining armour!

I think that you can be with a partner that it`s not goodlooking , but he/she need to compensate in other domains verry well, even if all other domains are just fine, maybe you will not be with that partner for ever, and that, maybe because of your friends, or simply because of mean people that are talking on the street, when they pass you and say bad things, like " how can you stay with that wale" ? or something that will make you think once again if he/she really deserve to be with you , or you deserve to stay with your partner.

It definitely could happen but it would take time. Physical attraction is something that is immediate when you meet someone. Getting to know someone and have genuine feelings for someone takes time. When you have that connection with someone your perception of attraction can rapidly change. So yeah it can easily happen but it would take developing a close relationship to do it.

kashmeresmycat hi there I was attracted to my mate so guess that lets me out,but had he been less attractive physically it wou ld never have minded as I loved him for the person inside him, the fun loving optimist that was congenitally positive about each day, and had a wide wonderful sense of humor. had he been homely it would not have made a bit of difference to me.