My Dream Lover.

I want a guy that Im attracted to like a magnet. I want a guy thats modest and doesnt think hes better than everyone else. I want a man with confidence but doesnt feel the need to blabb about himself because he already knows hes the sh*t...effortlessly... without having to tell anyone about it. I want a man that loves me with every bit of strength he has. I want him to listen to me, cater to me, and of course I will do it in return. I want a man that is intelligent enough to the point where I can trust him to be the captain of the ship. I dont mind it when a man wears the pants, but hes gotta know what hes doing. I want a man with excellent hygiene as well...

reetika, u have started a nice discussion, when i was reading those responses, i felt like reading someone else's diary..lol. well i believe that expectations are the key reason for disappointment. so i would like to be a giver rather than taking from her.. i expect only one thing from her that i want her to be with me for which i can do anything for her.. but luck didnt favour me till now.. waiting for a girl to come in my dream atleast.. by the way madam.. u didnt tell about the dream guy.. when r u going to reveal that?????????

Hello, I'm married already. sometimes I dont get what I want either cuz each one of us will not have everything we wish for, but at least you get some and most of it. Also, I have to get use to what I have now... just like old saying said, "If you are not married with the person you love but you have to take care what you have now..."

I can't really define my 'dream lover'. In my fantasies he'd always have blue eyes... and my current has blue eyes. Haha. So i sort-of got lucky. But then i'm really not bothered about looks. I want someone who can spoil me, not with physical items, but love, affection etc. Personality is all that matters to me.

I want (and found) a man who is true to himself, first and foremost. He doesn't try and be anything he's not and he's not upsetting himself that he can't be the person who he isn't. Decent looking, but not so much that he KNOWS he's hott and its all he talks about. A man who can be kind, gentle and sensitive (which, sometimes the hubs is a little toooooo sensitive, but that's ok) but is also a manly man. Isn't afraid of a little dirt to get the job done, knows how to take care of things around the house. Has a good family - if the family is a bunch of slums, then 9 chances out of 10, he will be too. A man that isn't afraid to commit himself to one woman. He's not worried about what he's "missing out on" by being tied down... and he lets you know that he's happy with you. A good family man. doesn't mind taking time out to sit on the floor with his kids and play, whether its an actual game or a made up game. He knows that quality time is more valuable then all the money in the world. A guy who knows how to have a good time out at the bar or whatever, but enjoys spending one on one time wtih ME just as much - whether its dinner, movies, bedroom (hehehehe) or whatever. I guess "m pretty needy. And I know my list isn't done... but there is no way anyone can actually list EVERYTHING they are or aren't looking for. Sometimes... you just don't know what you're looking for, until you find it

Type of guy? Mmmm ...It`s intresting.I think a woman really likes a man then she start to change him. :) I have a boyfriend and would like to have better jobs (two of us) and to spend more spare time together.He is really bisy and Icompllitelly understand why always is so tired.I want to share most but it`s not easy...I want to be a familly as soon as posible and don`t have any trouble.rigth now it seems to me impossible...