Soul mate Lovers
By sammy14
@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
January 12, 2010 12:25am CST
I discovered that using the comfort room does not only offer relief but also increase my knowledge.. I came across an article in an old news paper.. It is about a story of a married woman who had an affair with a married man.. the justification is that they were soul mates... lovers of another time... She tried several times to distance herself from the man because she was already married.. but she always find herself back in the arms of her lover. And until now they are having an illicit affair.. She found out that she is more in love with this man more than her husband..
Do you believe in soul mates... Will you engage in an illicit affair just like what the woman did because they are soul mates... How about the family that she has ... Is it just to tarnish a good family relations all because of soul mates.. and is it true that you cannot resist falling into a relationship with somebody because you are soul mates.. or she is just making this alibi in order to justify her immoral acts.. I pity her family.. How about you.. what is your comment..
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3 responses
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
17 Jan 10
I can appreciate the desire one can have for another person and I do, to a certain extent, believe there is such a thing as a soul mate, although that person does not have to necessarily be someone we should be romantically involved in. This woman has made vows to her husband and by rights she should respect those vows and decide whether he is someone who deserves to be betrayed. There is no excuse for adultery in my opinion. If she is unhappy in her marriage she needs to work on that and attempt to resolve the problems and only when she has left no stone unturned and done everything in her power to resolve the problems should she walk away. She may well end up in the arms of the other man if they are meant to be but he should not be the reason for her marriage to break up or for her husband to be betrayed.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
29 Jan 10
I don't believe in soul mates. I believe she is not in love with her husband, because if she was in love with him she would find herself going back to the other guy. I think she is just using that as an excuse possibly because she don't want to look bad and be the cause to destroying her family and children by having a divorice and having to deal with all that. I have no respect for anyone that cheats! She will burn in hell whether she thinks its her soul mate or not.
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
12 Jan 10
Desire is not permission. 
Marriage vows are to be taken seriously. It is easy to imagine oneself passionately and soulfully in love when physical attraction is at the center of the relationship. Honesty, loyalty, truth, integrity and everything you believe in should not go out of the window because you are in love. Love should lift you up and make you strive to be a better person. Being involved in an illicit affair is certainly not uplifting.
I do believe in soul mates. I even believe in love at first sight. I also believe lust can be mistaken for love - which may account for some people getting married five and six times. The measure of true love is time, commitment and shared life experiences along with the lust. After all, the lust may simmer down, but the caring, commitment and sharing should grow stronger when you truly love someone.
Marriage vows are to be taken seriously. It is easy to imagine oneself passionately and soulfully in love when physical attraction is at the center of the relationship. Honesty, loyalty, truth, integrity and everything you believe in should not go out of the window because you are in love. Love should lift you up and make you strive to be a better person. Being involved in an illicit affair is certainly not uplifting.
I do believe in soul mates. I even believe in love at first sight. I also believe lust can be mistaken for love - which may account for some people getting married five and six times. The measure of true love is time, commitment and shared life experiences along with the lust. After all, the lust may simmer down, but the caring, commitment and sharing should grow stronger when you truly love someone. 