between you and your boyfriend

Indonesia
January 12, 2010 12:50am CST
what do you do if you have friend who very close with you like your girlfriend?? what's your choice??your friend or your girlfriend and what is more important with you between friendship or love?
3 responses
@mjcookie (2273)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
Hi, ainur.. I don't have to choose, because a friend is a friend and it ends there. No romantic attachments. You treat a girlfriend differently from the way you treat a friend. It's gonna be complicated if you feel the same way for your friend. And to your last question, of course, both are important. you don't have to sacrifice any. However, a friend is always there, you can't break up with her like you could with a girlfriend, and you can share with her things that you can't share with your gf. Treat both of them well. Now if you're confused, I think you have to give yourself time and space. Think which of them is the one you really love. If you realize that you love your friend more, does she love you back? There are a lot of things that you have to consider.
• Indonesia
12 Jan 10
thanks for your response.I think your comment is good for my live
@mjcookie (2273)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
Hi. Thank you very much for choosing my response as best.:)
@cindy27 (130)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
don't think anyone have to choose between love and friendship. afterall all relationships starts as friends and even if they go along way deeper than than your lover should always be your closefriend also
• Indonesia
12 Jan 10
i mean if you is a boy,and you have a girlfriend.and then you introduce your girlfriend to your friend.recently,your friend love your girlfriend too.he will do everything in order to you and your girlfriend ended your relationship.what do you do with that??
• United States
12 Jan 10
I think that's a very hard question to answer. I guess it depends on a few things, like who you've known longer, who you care about more, who you think could be in it for the long run, things like that I guess. It's also the choice between love and best friendship. They're both very valuable, but which is better to the individual. I hope I wouldn't ever have to do that, but I would personally choose my girlfriend. I've been with her for nine months and love her more than anything on earth. I know this is probably just a random question of yours, but I hope you don't have to make this decision or anything. It sounds like it would be a very hard decision to make. Not one that most people would want to make. So I choose love.