Have you ever want bad things happen to your friends or family?

@andiel (117)
Malaysia
January 12, 2010 11:40pm CST
The question is simple because just now i really am angry with my friends i just hope he dies! I usually curse people when i get angry, but after that i would apologize to them for cursing them. Is that tolerable? Will my curse really became reality - because i don't want that to happens, never! P/S: I also had a fight with my eldest brother 2 years ago because he is such a loser and a burden to my family, and to some point i wish i would never had him as a brother and hope that he vanish from my family. I don't spoke to him ever since.
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@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
Hi there, Cursing is often a product of our abrupt emotional reaction when triggered by anger or bad mood. It is just a normal thing for normal individual. It is only said to be abnormal and a sin if we continue living in its poisonous spell. The past shall not rule our present and future unless it is for goodness sake. Yes, it is true, someone might be so stupid and useless in our eyes but that is not enough to hate them for life. Cursing is a wicked act tolerated and encouraged well by the prince of darkness. We dont want to live in the dark, so we must not follow a dark act. To forgive is only our tool to go on normally. Learn to let go for your own peace of mind and for the person you hated most to. With that, for sure a lesson both for you is learned.
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13 Jan 10
Hey cursing depends on your mood and religion. Never you think for a minute that it wont come true. If your are religious and keeps God commandments , dont just curse people cos it might come to past. Be careful how you talk because what you say might come true. Learn about forgiveness or try anger management lessons. It sure helps you know.
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@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
Yah no reason to argue I supposed? we have the same thought?
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• Romania
13 Jan 10
I think all of us have been in a moment of our lifes when we wanted bad thing to happened to friend or family.But when we want those bad things i don't know if we are really serious about those negative things.Don't worry , be happy and be positive!
@nocturn98 (956)
• Venezuela
13 Jan 10
We all say and do things that we don't mean when we are angry. I don't think that your curse will come true. I've said some bad things out of anger to friends, to co-workers, to my boss, that I wish something terrible would happen to them but when I came to my senses I know I didn't really mean it.
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• India
13 Jan 10
We all say something bad or disgusting when we are angry but that doesn't mean that comes true...but we should avoid this because if it comes true accidentally comes true we would be blaming ourselves for rest of our lives.It would definitely be insane.About your brother though he may be jerk or loser and you hate him but you should not stop talking to him,instead you should try interacting with him.Maybe with time you will understand why is he like that and your hatred towards him will vanish from your heart..
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@stand87 (664)
• Bulgaria
13 Jan 10
Oh, andiel, I really don't want bad things to happen in my family and friends. It's because we have enough problems! It will sadistic if we pray for more bad things! But maybe sometimes when you already have more than enough happiness you need some problems to solve. Bad things! I wonder how people can miss bad things :) I advise you better stay with the goodies and enjoy them! Bad things always happen in live anyway! Sooner or later they'll come on their own ! Don't ask for them!
• India
13 Jan 10
i havent think about it.. but i wont do a thing like this ever in my life.. why would we hurt someone who is close to us and cant even think of losing them...!! so how could we even think about hearting them...??
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
13 Jan 10
I don't wish any misfortune on anyone no matter what they do.I'm a christian so I learn to respond in a different way.At the time of anger it makes people say things they don't mean.Once words are spoken you can't take them back as if you never said them.That's good you apoligize,but maybe think before you get mad.I think anger is also bad for the health,because your blood pressure raises,and it can cause a person to have a heart attack.You shouldn't hold a grudge against anyone like that.I believe in making peace with people.We're in this life here now,why fight and bring people strife?