do you have any problem with your girlfriend or boyfriend?

Indonesia
January 14, 2010 3:51pm CST
as long as we are dating,of course someday will happens trouble.but when the trouble happen,usually what do you do with your girlfriend/boyfriend to fix the problem?however you still love his/her and you dont want to ended your relationship
5 responses
17 Jan 10
Conflict is what strengthen you relationship, the more you communicate and understand one another then you'll tend to fall more in love with each other. Talk in a normal tone voice. Find a solution, share the blame.
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
hey there.. you know what?? there's always trouble.. i think its quite normal for couples to fight coz if they dont, they wouldn't be normal.. there is no such thing as a perfect relationship but then there is always a stable one.. but then once in a while you encounter problems and you'll be trying to solve it to the best way that you can but eventhough how hard you try, it sometimes leads to the break up.. dont lose hope.. i say if you both love each other, you'll find a way to make it all better.. best of luck to you.. welcome to mylot.. happy mylotting.. [i]..swollen minds and spoken lies.. ..you'll never hear their silent cries..[/i] - hush
• United States
15 Jan 10
Yes, the road of a relationship often have scattered thorns and so sometimes pain becomes apparent. Sometimes unintetionally I hurt him and sometimes he does to me. But the thing that really is good between us is communication. In our relationship everytime there is a disagreement we make a point to talk to each other about it no matter at what time of the day or night it is and how many hours it takes for things to get sorted out. We need to talk about anything that is bothering. So far this has worked best. Despite the tiny problems that come between us we feel we are extremely happy with each other.
@Avinigav (238)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 10
That's right... sometime trouble come. When the trouble come, we talk about it. Sit and talk each other from heart to heart. But remember with low-level voice. Because if this conversation started with high-level voice, it will end up as a fight. Sometime we do with other way, we giving hug. Really warm hug with a word, Sorry. It will start the conversation or discussion between us with a good mood. Don't forget after the conversation say love each other and try do the point from conversation. :)
@bryce22 (69)
• Poland
15 Jan 10
Problem is a part of every relationship.It makes your relationship stronger and better.As you face problems,it challenge your trust to each other.For as long as both of you understands each other you can solve any problems.