Do you have a Daughter who wants to Model?

@jennybianca (12912)
Australia
January 15, 2010 12:43am CST
I do. My daughter is 16 1/2 years old. I'm not that keen on the idea of modelling. But I have told my daughter it is okay for earning extra money as a part time job. She has never done a modelling course. Twice, she has entered the GirlFriend Australia wide modelling competition. The first time, the judges told me that she had everything they wanted for a model, except height. This year when she entered it was much the same. They said the minimum height for a model is 5ft 8in. My daughter is 5ft 7in when last measured, but the physio said she is going to grow until she is 19. She is very attractive, with olive skin, blue, almond shaped eyes, with a classic shaped face. She is very thin. Should I be encouraging this modelling idea? Are there any My Lotters with experience in this field who can give me some advice?
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@lizardgod (443)
• United States
15 Jan 10
Although I don't personally have any experience with my daughter being considered for modeling I have had friends and I don't mind throwing out a few thoughts. I think that if your daughter is beautiful enough to be considered for modeling that I would be very supporting. Although it is not the best idea for a long term job it is usually great money over the short term and as long as she doesn't forget her school and continues her education while she does it then she will have plenty of money to keep her going through college and the into her search for a career. I have seen it happen with friends of mine several times. I hang out with a few people who have gone through this and now one is working towards becoming a business executive and another is working on being a teacher and the third is actually working on getting a degree in computer based forensics. Each of them is/were funding their colleges through their modeling careers. So as long as you guide her in making the right decisions to continue her education then it should work out very well.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
16 Jan 10
Yes, it was the thought that she could use modelling on a part time basis to earn money that I thought was okay. Getting into modelling though can be very expensive. Thanks for your good suggestions.
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
16 Jan 10
This is really helpful info. tHanks very much.
@l33tgirl (288)
• New Zealand
15 Jan 10
I did some modeling when I was that age and I found most of the models at our agency including myself got bored with the idea sooner or later. When you start out you don't get paid a lot unless you do win a contest. You work at crazy hours if you are doing commercials and it's a cold industry. The glamour tends to wear off and you realise it's a business like any other. If she wants to do it it's better she gives it a go now because most models don't work past their mid twenties. Also think about if she does into modeling, what is she going to do after since the career of a model has a short lifespan. Height wise she could do commercials and print work, also the pay is better for commercials when you are starting out. She needs a thick skin too, don't encourage it if she is a sensitive kid because no matter how beautiful you are, someone will find something wrong with you in this field. Because you live in Australia, I think you may have a better shot than somewhere like America because the industry is smaller, she could even think about TV etc.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
16 Jan 10
She hjas often thought about TV and does verey well in acting classes at school. Got 86 % for her acting exam.
• United States
16 Jan 10
Sounds like we might be hearing more about her in the future if she has the drive. Also l33tgirl is right, my friends that did modeling all stopped around 22 or 23. They had made some extra money and funded their college and that is what they wanted. I will tell you though that if she is interested in doing something else, like TV or movies, then modeling can be a great way to make connections. I would encourage her to talk to people she is working with, her bosses at different shoots and producers/directors for commercials because they might know some people to get her started in a different field. One of my friends actually made friends with a producer who went on to be an assistant for a bigger film producer and she got a role in the film, not major or anything but not an unnamed extra in the background either. So it is good for networking, because if I was a producer/director looking for attractive young women willing to work the odd hours for a movie I would look to models I knew because they would be used to it.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
15 Jan 10
Modeling is a glamorous job and it's in every girls' dream of being on a catwalk and be the first to parade the latest fashion collections. Unfortunately many failed in their attempts to be a model because of height. If your daughter lacks the height required to be a catwalk model she can opt for other modeling assignments like representing branded beauty products. The reward is equally good.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
dear jenny, youre lucky to have a very sexy and tall daughter. i dont see anything wrong with modelling. if she likes it then let her but with the condition that she will never stop getting good grades in school and that she will finish school no matter what. have a nice day. ann
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
15 Jan 10
Yes, I am very strong on schooling.,She is just about to start year 12, then go to university.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
15 Jan 10
I have always wanted to model- in high school everyone kept telling me I should. I am 5'3" and part asian- I went to meet with a couple people from modeling agencies before, and I was always denied because I was too short. Now I'm 19, have tattoos, and am moving to Los Angeles in a couple weeks- there I'm hoping to get into the "alternative" fashion modeling scene. But my advice for you daughter is let her go for it. A lot of the bigger modeling agencies might now sign her because of her height, but she can try modelmayhem; it's a [legit] website where fashion industry professionals (photographers, makeup artists, models) can network. I know a couple people who are under 5'8" and have gotten quite a few jobs from that site. Otherwise, just beware- always look up agencies, photographers and designers online to see if there any info about their past and what kind of models they have had in the past.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
16 Jan 10
This is excellent advice. What is the "alternative" modelling scene? I hope you have success with it. Im checking out that site you gave me now.
• India
15 Jan 10
well height matter lot in modelling feild.... as a desing clothes wich a fashion designer is making, it must b for a perfect height body level to show all type or size of women that clothing sense, so for perfect designoer if she works she must have a height. height calculate all over presentation of the show, so i help u only by saying this dat, try to not make ur daughter down, let her b independent, try to encourge for her height not for modelling at this movement, excercise may help her a lot. i wish lot dat ur daughter bcum a g8 model. as i want to bcum fashion designor so my views i shared for u. else ur daughter mite have gud personality. there have many adds all d best
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
16 Jan 10
She does have a good personality. Masybe should could focus on makeup modelling or hair styles. She may still grow more anyway.
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
4 Mar 10
Absolutely, some people think that models are a lot of things, but when my daughter went through her modeling phase, the ladies I met were very nice and respectable, because their parents were on top of their career. They were able to tell the agents what they wanted and did not want for their child, and most cases the parents were respected. My daughter lost interest after a while but she did pretty good for about 20 months.
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@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
16 Jan 10
I attended a modeling school when I was younger, but I never had a modeling job. I have the height requirement but I didn't have the desire you sometimes need to be a success. I could not give up some of the foods that models shouldn't eat. I am not heavey but I am not thin enough to model. I think you should let her do what she wants and someday she will probably lose interest. She is still young, and it probably seems glamorous now. If she does stay interested in it, maybe that is what she was meant to do.
• United States
16 Jan 10
yeah the diet is the worst! i was thin but i had to watch and make sure my skin didnt break out (Which it wasnt bad but you know how they magnify every flaw it seems when trying to get into it) and after trying to give up caffeine, fried foods, colored drinks, candy etc i was like ugh NOT WORTH IT! im a kid!
• United States
16 Jan 10
I think most kids would think it wasn't worth it. Your only a kid once, and they aren't usually have a lot of willpower. Why should they?
• United States
15 Jan 10
A friend of mine use to be a model before she got married. If your daughter is 16 then there is a chance she may be too old to start. Most start as young as 9. She all so said it is not an easy life. And she will have to give up much of what makes life fun. She will have to watch her weight, never cut or do any thing with her hair with out asking the agency she works for first. She will have little or not social life. And she will find her self competing for jobs with several girls and young women who will look just like her. Modeling is a lot of very hard work and hart brake. But if your daughter is willing to go threw all of that, then let her at least try. But talk to some models first so she will be going in to this with her eyes wide open.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
15 Jan 10
In Australia models can start at a much older age than 9. But I agree with you regarding all the other disadvatanges.