Parents

Malaysia
January 15, 2010 5:40am CST
Should parents say bad things about their children? please, i need some opinions here.
3 responses
BART78
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
15 Jan 10
cursing words, profanity and squaring is no, no, for children...do want them when they grow old and used all this word against you when they mad at you? obviously BIG NO!
danialariff90
@danialariff90 (28)
• Malaysia
15 Jan 10
well, even if parents say such words like we're rude, or not well-educated, these will break the children's heart.
fedoralinux
@fedoralinux (556)
• India
15 Jan 10
i thought parents should not say bad things about their children....because they don't have maturity at that age...they were playful in every things... every parents grown by the childhood itself.they were also not having maturity at their childhood...they have to realize it... my parents won't have say bad about me at any time..they always motivated me in the right way.....
danialariff90
@danialariff90 (28)
• Malaysia
15 Jan 10
i don't know what's going on, it's as if sometimes they don't like the way their children are, and sometimes trying to find their children's fault, just to shoot and condemn them badly. I myself sometimes experience the same thing. until one moment, i feel like difficult to respect them if they don't respect me at first, as their children.
danitykane
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
hi danialariff90, I think it really depends on the manner of saying it, if they have seen any bad behavior on their children they must say it on a proper way. Remember, children tend to misinterpret their parents when they are being scolded and more, if they've heard negative things about them. They might feel that they are not being loved. For me, a child must learn his/her mistakes and must realize what are the negative things about nim/her so that he/she can improve herself and be a better person. But it should be relied in a way that won't hurt anyone's feelings.