Love a person, hate a person, forgive a person, which one is more diffcult? why?

China
January 15, 2010 6:54am CST
Everyone may have a different view, I think my order is love a person, hate a person, forgive a person. if you love a person and don't hate the person, you can forgive him/her, so i think forgiving a person is the most diffcult. Love a person, hate a person, forgive a person, which one is more diffcult? why?
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@se7enthbird (8326)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
it depends on the range of anger, why do you hate that person? why do you need to forgive that person. i forgive but never forgets.... if i forgive someone than means that there is a bright chance that we can be good friends again. but there are friends i can forgive but there is no point to be friends again. there are more good people out there that i can be friends with. so i can say that there are people i hate and no longer communicate with them. i also have people who i forgive and still have them as friends.
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• China
18 Jan 10
Hi, se7enthbird, thanks for your response. Some people really couldn't be forgived, when you are good for him, he didn't feel it.
• India
16 Jan 10
Loving a person is difficult when you take it as a task because love is nothing to do with.it happens itself sometimes without letting you know & you suddenly realize it.Hating a person is difficult because when you hate someone you think about that & you think about the reason & in this way you give more trouble to yourself.Forgiving can be easy or hard depends on the nature of the fault done by someone.If he\she had done a fault which is not forgettable for you than its difficult to forgive & vise versa.
• India
15 Jan 10
i think that loving a person is very difficult than hating a person..then forgiving a person is not so and not so difficult.it depends on the behavior of the person.....
@kirrugadu (114)
• India
15 Jan 10
About myself Loving A person Is Easy, And after loving Hate that person is difficult Forgiving is easy when we love them with our hearts....... ;-)