how do you act when you found out that the one you love, loves your best friend?

Philippines
January 15, 2010 12:07pm CST
my best friend and i always hang out, meeting new friends, girls for certain. we always have he same taste, i mean the same ideal girl. but the person always ends up with my best friend. i know he's gorgeous than me, but i always comes this way, the girl ended up to be his girl. aw! is there something wrong with me? should i change or make ove a little bit or let his pass again, or should i hit my best friend? hehe..
1 response
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 10
I really think that it is not easy when you have to choose between your love or friendship. But I believe in the situation you're given to me is a fair situation. You both are chasing the same girl, and were competing fair and square, so there mustn't be any problem of it. My wise friend said that if the girl chose another person, than she is not yours. And what's not destined to be yours wouldn't be yours and I don't think it is wise to blame either yourself or your friends just because of this. Remember, that a girl who choose someone over someone else just because of the physical reasons are not worth to be chase over. And maybe, all you need to do is boost up your self confidence. Girls are not attracted with people with inferiority.
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
thanks for the advice. youre right, theyre not worth to chase over. they do not look on the inside, just the outside.