What is the first thing you fell in love with when meeting your partner?

January 15, 2010 3:47pm CST
When I first met my partner it wasn't his looks that made me feel weak and dream of him. Thinking back it was really the way how I realised how insecure he was of his own intelligence when everyone around him admired his intelligence, ability and success. It was kind of cute that he doubted himself secretly when he was so successful. What is the first thing you noticed about your partner and that made you start falling in love with him?
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
Well, we had a weird beginning, but thats a different story. I just actually had a crush on him...I really liked his hair, the way he walks, carries his bag [lol], and his smile. So thats where it started. Then when I get to know him, the thing that I fell in love with him would be his sweetness, and the way that he loves me unconditionally. Time passes, and I kinda forgotten about liking his looks..I'm kinda more attached to his personality now.
16 Jan 10
That's the thing about love. What seems so important in the beginning loses weight later on when you love the person just for who he or she is. It might first be physical, but then personality comes through.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
Uh-huh, I definitely agree on that.
@knkshrt (26)
• India
17 Jan 10
He meet me in the college.he was waiting for me. waring green t-shirts and Blue jeans.He was looking like a bull and was like a cat.He proposed me on the beach.asking several questions.i cant forget the day till now.
1 Apr 10
That sounds really lovely.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
16 Jan 10
You mean besides my husband's good looks? LOL The thing that made me fall in love with my husband was when he told about one of the cats he had, that he had rescued her from a ditch when she was just a tiny kitten, too young to fend for herself. That story made my heart melt and I knew he had a real soft side for animals after that, which I just loved. But his golden blond hair, gorgeous eyes, and butt were nice too. LOL Happy mylotting!
16 Jan 10
Good combination - good looks and good heart. You are one lucky girl!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
16 Jan 10
He was very kind and supported me within my family which was full of very strong people who insisted on trying to tell me how to run my life.
17 Jan 10
It's good to have someone strong and supportive by your side. I hope you are happy together.
@knkshrt (26)
• India
16 Jan 10
I was in the college in F.y.jc.We met once through a mutual friend.And on the same day he proposed me.I was so shocked that cannot be able to answer his question for 2 years.after 2 years i answered him positively.he was so happy to hear this 3 magical words from my mouth.that time i realize the true love.As today also Love is difficult to define.love is much more than a risk.
17 Jan 10
Wow, he obviously was in love from the first sight. I think it is good though that you waited to make your decision. Love has to grow from the first emotion to be stable.
• United States
16 Jan 10
For us it was a love at first sight. While I fell for his irritated look, he fell for my scared face. When we discussed our feelings later, we both were surprised to find out that we both had the feeling that we disliked each other. He is really good looking. Another thing that I liked about him was that he was always serious in the class. He never smiled except once when we were told by the professor to discuss things in our group. He looked at me and gave his first smile which was after a month!
16 Jan 10
That must have been bliss getting that first smile! Lovely story - thanks.
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
Back then I fell in-love with his personality. The way he was, he was intelligent and at the same time quirky at every little thing. Thus, that made us where we are today. He has a great sense of humor and that brought us together like anything.
16 Jan 10
Sounds nice. It is importantly that the personalities fit together. Looks can't keep you together for a long time.
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
I fell in love (and still in love) with my ex partner because she cares for me. Probably the only woman except for my mother of course that cared for me so much. No woman has showed concern for me the way she did.
16 Jan 10
It must be hard to still be in love if you are no longer together. But finding a person who cares for you is such a blessing. I hope you find it soon again.
@Gladi472 (82)
• Romania
16 Jan 10
I love her eyes (green) ,and she was so energetic and always knew how to have fun.
16 Jan 10
She sounds like a lovely girl to be with. And green eyes are certainly unusual.