January 16, 2010 9:15am CST
i have worked for almost one year, however, suddenly i found i have no pursuit now. But before, i'm in pursuit of being a quiet, a good-temper, a patient girl. i want to change my personality. i'm afraid i have to find a new pursuit for my life, or i 'll lose myself.
• United States
17 Jan 10
Hi, crystal: Being a quiet, good tempered, patient young woman is not a bad thing at all. Why do you want to change your personality. Do you think you are too quiet? Do you not speak up when you need to? Too good tempered? Do you feel you let people run over you sometimes? Too patient? Do you feel you need a little more fire? If so, it is fine to work on those things that will enhance your personality. All of us should try to constantly improve ourselves. When you say pursuit, I will assume you want to set new goals for yourself. As the poster above suggested, you might find more fulfillment in looking outside yourself. Try doing more productive and enjoyable things with friends. Get involved with an organization that helps others. Maybe as a volunteer. Think about what you like to do and find a group that is involved in that activity somehow. You may be amazed at the difference in how you feel. Good luck and God bless.
• United States
16 Jan 10
How about changing this world to be a better place?? Give love and kindness to everyone you meet. Help those you can and encourage those you can't. Change the world a person at a time with your acts of kindness. Watch your actions spread with those around you. You will never be lost for deep down, you know the direction you must take.