Internet-love affair...do come true...believe it or not?

Hello bonita mia good morning to you...I think this prove on some different meaning of Love. LOVE IS BLIND; in the sense that the woman never look what might be the risk of marrying someone who has different culture. I knew a lot of women after marrying someone who has different culture with us experiencing big problem especially when the woman lives already at the man's country. In this case, it can triggered some couple's problem that might be resulted of splitting up. LOVE IS AN ISLAND OF ROMANCE SURROUNDED WITH EXPENSES; this is on the side on the man ( foreigner) just imagine the amount of money he spend just to win finally this woman.. Do i make myself understood bonita mia? This is only my opinion How about if someday this would happen to you? There's a big possibility isn't it? he he he ha ha

hello jaiho... well i guess its really possible. love will find its way!

I think that more people are meeting people from the internet than they used to int past, but the world has changed a lot since the internet was first introduced. With more peop[le having internet access and spending more time online it seems logical that many would meet friends, partners online. It can be daunting I imagine to meet someone in person after only previously communicating online. It is questionable if you can ever really know about a person without forging a relationship in the world beyond online communication. That said though, if a person is dishonest or involves themselves in bad things in life it doesnt't really matter if you meet them online or have known them for years. There is every chance of getting hurt in matters of love regardless of where we meet a person. There is a chance that relationships can work after online meetings but it depends on the people involved and the circumstances of life that impact on their relationships.

of course, i do believe in internet love affair. even if they come from two different parts of the world, it will still be possible to happen. i also know some people here, aside from one of the relatives of my wife, who happened to get married with an australian guy.

Hi Jaiho, Well, anything is possible under the sun! One may need to be extra careful and cautious in choosing their partners especially in the internet. I think it would demand double, if not, triple care as much as one done on a personal basis would take. We are only here to see what one writes or hear what one says over a webcam. It is surely very different if you had a personal interaction with each other. Knowing a person is surely a long and maybe, an unending process. Even those who have lived together or have years of marriage still have the "strangers" in them and only get to know each other better after long years of co-existence.

Yes, i believe that some internet love affairs do lead to happy marriage. As evidence, one senior of my college met a girl through internet, started love affair between them and soon they got married. It's nice in the sense that there is no interference of a mediator or parents. People could select their lifepartner easily through internet. Soon,many will follow the trend.

I know many ladies in our place who have found their foreigners husbands through the internet. I having nothing against this but I am just worried that some of them end up as maids in the foreign seas. It is difficult to trust people whom you met online. Good for those who are very lucky to have found a good husband.

hi friend, I don't think so that internet love affair will come true. I don't believe i have seen just only time pass love on internet love affair. In very rare cases that the good relationship will happen a true love affair on online. have a good day.

I cannot contradict that situation for myself met my bf through an online game. And we've been together for more than two years now. Just because two people are miles away, it doesn't mean that their hearts can't meet. :) Although there might be some issues as the relationship grows but we can never avoid that now can we?

That example is like one drop oil in one drum meat. Where in person love is too hard then meeting someone online is just a dream. Lol

well first, I'd have a hard time accepting the claim. First, I'm in America where 50% of marriages fail, and that doesn't include the millions of shack up relationships where 90% fail. Second, I'm massively skeptical by nature. So I don't know what it's like in your country, but until they are still together 20 years from now, and happily married, I still don't trust it. As for me, it would take a miracle of God for me to fall in love with some women I have never met, let alone get married to her. I just don't think that's going to happen. How do I know she is who she says she is? How do I know she isn't crazy? How do I know she won't find some other guy online, and be gone next year? Sorry... too cynical for that.

Hi jaiho: I agree with you and I find it marvelous how people can meet each other nowadays. In my case, I have never experienced this and I find it a little bit difficult to start a relationship in that way but of course, if two persons love eachother they can have a relationship via internet and they eventually would get married. Thanks for sharing with us this story. -Alvaro.

Yes its true. Each everyone. They are meant to each other, they meet in different ways.

I do believe it much because I experienced it by myself. Means my girl friend now I get by chatting then continuing untill now. So happy I am..

In my opinion internet love has less scope for success. People are not frank online. People lie a lot online. People act a lot online. Only a very few cyber love can be successful. I have started to write a novel with a name "Cyber Fling" but could not continue it. I wanted to write how a man can get very close to a chat friend and how it develops into a serious love.... I think success rate is very less than 1%. BYW I don't get any chat friend to experiment it? Your dear brother is so unlucky hehehe...

it is just a coincidence that both of them really met. in most of the cases affair last on internet it never goes out of internet. but there are lot of exception so it is as well. hope they will live long as a partner. i hope i will also get my partner on net.

hi jaiho, It happens and it do come true! I know someone who met "someone" online and they got married. I find it weird at first but after hearing their stories it made me think that sometimes online love affair make sense. I used to think that it was weird and so crazy...but in most cases it isn't. There are great couples whose living their lives together happily and there is no way to judge them. Love is love. Anything in this world is possible, that includes loving someone online. (well, in my case..I still prefer the other way around) haha! happy lotting!

I do not know. I am not the trusting kind. But if they are happy, good for them. You just have to be carefull, because you have to get to know each other in person.

I don't know but i don't trust it since the media is saying all that stuff. Like the part about internet-dating could result to some sick pedophile attracting teens or kids and illegal actions. I do trust matchmakers but internet dating is unreliable i guess...

i think that anythig is possible ...BUT i also thimk that you have to spend some time just to scratch the surface of someones soul and feelings.