how long you can forgive a person?

South Korea
January 17, 2010 5:50am CST
weve been friends for a long time,i like her that much,so i help her to get married,and that she get married to my brother inlaw, at first she is good,but as a saying goes you will only know a peron if you will be together in the same house and thats it...she became more difficult to get along well..so i ask my husband if we can live a bit far from them..so weve been apart and she continue making bad gossip about me ..so told myself that i wont talk to her,but yesterday because of her husband,the birthday celebration was ruined. my sister inlaw slapped her and so i help her to run away from my sister inlaw and now she is starting to call me that makes me paranoid..all of a sudden we talk again it was so funny...how about you how long you can forgive someone you hated?please share
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@williamjisir (22884)
• China
18 Jan 10
Hello marketing friend. I think that it might take me some time before I can forgive someone for the wrong s/he did to me. It is only a time issue, but I usually forgive him or her for it. Yet the relationship might not be back to its previous state based on the seriousness of the case. In general, I am a forgiving one.
• South Korea
18 Jan 10
wow. its nice to know that your a kind of person that can easily forgive..for me its depend how she/he hurt me...thanks
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• China
25 Jan 10
Hello marketing friend. Thank you so much for the best response. I appreciate it as always. Take care.
@haiershen (1082)
• China
20 Jan 10
i would like to forgive the person who is agaist me as i want to make everyday happy, if there are some bad things in my heart,it is difficult to make me happy, our life is very so long, so that i prefer to forgive others, that meaning forgive myself. maybe time is very important for this matter.good luck and have a nice day!
• South Korea
24 Jan 10
thanks
@atv818 (1986)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Feb 10
It depends on how intense the offense was. If it was just a simple one then let bygones be bygones, but if it was a HUGE offense, then it might never be forgiven at all. Oh well, since growing mature at my age and fearing God so much who is the most forgiving at all, I might get myself to forgive even the worst offender. Maybe when I'm 90 years old.