Help! Falling in love with a more beautiful woman

@2timothy (794)
Philippines
January 17, 2010 6:46am CST
How can a man (in his right heart and mind) not fall in love with a more beautiful woman who loves him more than his wife does?
8 responses
@denagary (88)
• United States
17 Jan 10
How do you know she loves you more than your wife? Most people get comfortable within a long term relationship. That doesn't mean your wife doesn't love you. Maybe what you feel for this new woman is LUST not love.
1 person likes this
• India
17 Jan 10
this is where our ethics, family values, culture and faith comes in picture. This is something ongoing - today you saw someone more beautiful than your wife, again you saw someone more beautiful then the earlier one and it will go on. What is the end --------. Concentrate on current life and do not chase things like this.
@LadyMarissa (12160)
• United States
17 Jan 10
I must say that is the dumbest question I have EVER heard!!! Love has absolutely NOTHING to do with looks!!! Love is the merging of two souls becoming one. I think your wife would be the luckiest woman in the world if you left her for beauty. I bet you'll find that your beautiful woman won't love you so much once shes living with you & can see the black soul you carry inside!!! Much like a siren, a beautiful woman can make you drunk with LUST. Lust is NOT love!!!
@zearah (5341)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
Hey!
@LadyMarissa (12160)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Yesssss????
@2timothy (794)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
Would loving inner beauty still be considered lust? A pleasant advice rather than a sarcastic judgment will be well appreciated.
• United States
17 Jan 10
I suppose it is the same process and the woman falling for a handsom man who appears to care for her more than her husband does! It's still wrong!
@2timothy (794)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
What is wrong and what is right is much confused today as people choose their own moral standards, even standards among religious people vary, compounded by relativism. While others excuse themselves with to err is human, some are without ethics, like those who consider nothing is wrong if it feels good.
• United States
13 Nov 10
You are very correct, and sadly so. The lines drawn between holy and unholy are more or less very weak anymore. and no one seems to understand those who wish to live a holy live!
@mrfdg1972 (3238)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
Gud Pm Timothy, i believe all guys do fall in love everyday, women they were created to be a beauty something to look upon and fall in love, but you have a responsibility now, to your wife and kids (if you have kids) I say enjoy your life being a man, get those sought after Encounters outside Marriage, but DONT FALL IN LOVE with other women.
• United States
17 Jan 10
Yes it is possible when the wife does not love and respect the husband. This can actually cause a lot of depression in the man, making him lean towards someone else who promises him something more. But same can be told for a woman too. If she does not receive much love and respect from her husband she might just look else where for it. I have seen it happening. Incompatible people should not marry each other.
@mjcookie (2273)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
Maybe the man is just FASCINATED by the IDEA that the woman is beautiful and that she loves him more than his wife does. He should be sure that it is real LOVE that he feels for this woman and not just infatuation.
@zearah (5341)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
By nature man is polygamous???