does she really love me?

@kalens (16)
China
January 18, 2010 5:45am CST
one day,when I was talking with the girl happlily,suddenly she said she loved me.but at that time i didn't response for this,and talked for other things.we go on talking and talking. but after that i didn't pay attention to her,and never found her with initiative. so a few days later,i found her and talked to her as usual.but i found that she pay less passion for me. so i don't know if she really love me! i don't know if i love her too.maybe a little.But i will feel nice when talking with her.
4 responses
• India
18 Jan 10
if she shows so much concern about you and always care about you liking and disliking and tell you about your god things this show how much she concern about you and that means she really love you
@kalens (16)
• China
19 Jan 10
hi shivamkapila! thanks for you response. but the point is I am not sure if I love her. i am afraid that if she really love me,but i don't love her,then i will hurt her. i don't want to hurt anybody,and i don't want to lost a friend. I don't know how to express myself here. Maybe i think too much,and it doesn't worth.
@fiazio (734)
• India
18 Jan 10
Hey, I think you guys should talk even more and talk about your relationship and where its going. If you think that things aren't going well, then you know. But there's always something that can refresh and spice up a relationship. Best of luck!
@kalens (16)
• China
19 Jan 10
hi fiazio, things are going well now.but I am afraid the future. because i like her ,but i am not sure if i love her. i can get on well with her when she is just my normal friend. i don't want to hurt her,because she is my good friend. i feel complicated now
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
I think she really loves you but she's giving you the cold shoulder because maybe she felt embarassed when you did not reply when she said she loved you. I'm sure her feelings got hurt. You two need to talk. The fact that you are affected may mean that you also have feelings for her.
@ltruong (128)
• Australia
18 Jan 10
yea i think you should have a chat with her too to see what she wants from you