i got embarrassed by 2 girls in a temple...

India
January 18, 2010 10:47am CST
dear friends, 2 days back i went to a temple with my parents.. the temple was flooded with people since it was an auspicious day.. things were going peacefully.. suddenly i felt someone following me.. when i turned back it was true.. 2 girls were giggling at me they were trying to speak with me.. they were signalling me for my mobile no.. i didn't respond.. then they wrote something in a bit of paper and threw it near me and they wanted me to pick it up (im very much sure that they are not of other kind/bad character).. but i didn't. the worst part is mom saw this and didn't know how to react.. i really got irritated and came back home as soon as possible after finishing our prayers there.. GIRLS - HAVE YOU EVER BEEN EMBARRASED BY A GUY LIKE THIS ? GUYS - HAVE YOU EVER BEEN EMBARRASED BY A GIRL LIKE THIS ? NOTE - THIS DISCUSSION IS JUST TO SHARE THIS INCIDENT WITH ALL OUR MYLOT FAMILY MEMBERS.. AND NOT TO HURT ANYONE OR ANY GENDER...
7 responses
@vathsala30 (3728)
• India
20 Jan 10
hi sekhar Fortunately (unfortunately) i have no experience like this and i think I will never face it too atleast in this age. But you are too lucky yaar. you know when the guys are longing to get the attention of even a single gal, without any effort you are trailed by not one but two gals. Wah! What a luck (sekhar, do not faint, just kidding friend)
• India
20 Jan 10
thankyou thankyou.. now i feel bad that i missed that chance.. lol....
• India
20 Jan 10
no pro try again by going to the same temple every day
• India
19 Jan 10
I think you are making a big issue out of a small thing dhanasekart. When boys can go behind the girls in a temple, why not the girls. If you did not like their behaviour, you could talked to them politely, and told them that the temple is not the place for such things. It is improper for the girls to act like this in a Temple, but the young people are like that. They are not serious. The same kind of thing has happened to me, in a theater and not in a temple. I was very happy, that some girls found me interesting.
• India
19 Jan 10
hi ramesh.. first i would like to thank you for responding my discussion and congratulate for receiving best response from vinkumar regarding palmbux a smart scam site.. coming to our discussion.. as you said i have seen many guys falling behind girls and its a common happening.. but especially in india it is rare that girls follow guys.. that too i was unhappy because it was the place where people come to worship and it is unfair to get into activities inside a holy place.. whether it is a guy or girl..even i have a very nice friend (girl) whome i met in a train and it is more than 5 yrs we are enjoying our friendship.. what i request is whether it is a guy or a girl please let us not take holy places into account for those activities..
• India
19 Jan 10
As I mentioned dhanasekhart, not all the youngsters would be mature like you. Youngsters will be youngsters, and they do not have any care in the world. Why do you think, the boys and girls, come to the Temple on aupicious day, dressed up in all their finery.It is for the others to see them and admire them.That is life in India.
• India
18 Jan 10
Hey friend no need to feel embarrassed by this incident. I don't they did something for which you have feel embarrassed. Because it is they who did wrong not you. No such incident has happened with me so far. But if happen I will not feel embarrassed.
@atleya (947)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 10
Hi, I think I have same opinion with you. I feel no need to feel embarrassed by such incident. I myself never experience such incident so far. Have a good day. Best wishes,
• India
19 Jan 10
ya your true the mistake is not mine.. but the reason whyi felt bad is that they too belong to my age range(generation).. when my mom was seeing, i felt that she would think that my generation is running too fast and not even minding about the place(temple) where we must restrict few activities..
@saphrina (31738)
• South Africa
18 Jan 10
You know, girls are really strange in situations like this. Don,t get me wrong, what they did is not the problem, but the timing and the way they did it, was rude. Maybe they think you are attractive and that was probably the only place that they could get near you. Or near enough at least. Maybe if you see them again, wait till after your prayers and then you tell the straightforward that they embarresed you and that a place of prayer is not a place to try and hook up with someone. It is just not done. Hope that was helpfull.
• India
19 Jan 10
yes i 100% go with u
@saphrina (31738)
• South Africa
19 Jan 10
I am glad that i could be of help. Have a nice day.
• India
19 Jan 10
hi bro, you know ur so lucky that the girls have really liked u and they didnt knew brother where your are and with whom just they wanted to talk to you maybe they thought that they cant meet you again probally... so they didn't want to miss the chance And you have broke the girls heart... bad boy
• India
19 Jan 10
hehehe.. ur right i could understand their intention but was helpless lol..
@shibham (17019)
• India
19 Jan 10
Hi. Me? No. But i want to say that u should encounter them and ask whats their problem with good manner. They might have some problem. Anyway situation demands everything. Hav a nce day.
• India
19 Jan 10
ya shibham, they were giggling when i saw them, they were in a mood to propose me (can easily guess the way they behave/face expressions).. their problem is to get my no to talk with me..
• United States
18 Jan 10
Well some people just do not respect religious places or ceremonies at all. I do not go to Temple but I cannot believe the respect that should be given would be any different in that holy place then in a church or synagogue. As for embarrassing situations during a religious ceremony I have one that is different from yours as it was not a girl/boy thing it was a child/parent thing. We where at the Baptism of our nephew in a Catholic church (we are not catholic but are christian). My husband and parents and I where appalled at the behavior my older nephew and his cousins (from other side) behaved in the sanctuary and chapel. They ran wild during the ceremony and even played with the holy water being used during the baptism. Actually I believe appalled is light of a word. We where so embarrassed by this behaviour we just about ran out of the church. Our own children never left their seats and or spoke a word other then to take part of ceremony. They where 2, 6, and 8. What was worse was that no one, not the parents, not the priest, no one stopped these kids from misbehaving. My father a catholic growing up remembers the nuns taking kids who fidgeted too much out of the chapel during service and was horrified by the way these kids acted. Much to our astonishment they let the kids behave this way while in restaurants and other public places. We refuse to go out in public with them. It has hurt my husbands relationship with his brother but we just cannot handle the embarrassment of being with them when they let the kids behave in such a way.
• India
19 Jan 10
its a very bad thing.. hope the kids fall in track as they growup and i pray that both your families come close again and cherish