how do you go on in life?

United States
January 18, 2010 12:42pm CST
i try to move on in life. But it's like i take one step forward and someone always pushes me right back were i was.There are many times when i feel like nobody loves me but i just to tell myslef that i have grandparents who loves me.I will never forget the day when my mom told mem that me dad tryed to push here down the stairs so that she would not have me. And he told my mom that i was to black and i was not his child when my mom told me i cryed. My dad dont even call me for my birthday or chritmas oe new years eve .My mom puts money before her kids and i cant even rember the last time she took us out some place.So i just try to live my life and think about my what im going to do to support myself.
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• United States
18 Jan 10
You have to give yourself a new start in life. We just entered a new year this month. You need to let go of the stress your carrying around. Your mother is the only bread winner in the house. I know this and so do you. Let your mother get a break here. The roof over your head is warmer than the concrete out side. I know how hard it is for you. Your father is another story,let go of this and move o to your life. Hope this makes sense.
• United States
18 Jan 10
thanks so much for u advice
• United States
18 Jan 10
thanks so much for your advice
• India
18 Jan 10
This is true that you have said so, you always have to move on in life you cant stop at one stop for much time. No life does not remain same they change when a individual tries to change by forgetting the old ones and share anew life things or life another motivation is to move on i agree with your point of view .
@saphrina (31738)
• South Africa
18 Jan 10
Hey, do you really mean to say that of all the things you have in life, you cannot move forward. It is easy. Ask God to take your hand and he will not let you falter. He will walk beside you. You are grown now. I do not say not to love your parents, but do you need them to go on with your life. Come on, you know as well as i do, that you are a strong person, who will get ahead in life, no matter how much steps you have to take backward. Moving forard is hard, but that is okay, you can always ask God to help you put one foor before the other. He doesn,t mind helping. So, get on those two feet of yours and start walking. And always make sure that your grandparents know, how many steps you move forward, everday.
• United States
18 Jan 10
thank you add me as your friend.
@saphrina (31738)
• South Africa
18 Jan 10
I will but remember to keep one foot ahead of the other. Promise me.
@smileonstar (4012)
• United States
18 Jan 10
Hello, Im sorry for all the bad thing happened to you... by the way, how old are you now? if you a teenager then you should keep up in your study and forget what your dad did to you or never think you are his kid or something. There are many things you can do in life, and there are many people around you facing difficult challenge than you but they still get up and move on in their life. Nothing you can do, it is just YOU your own that think opposite way. You never heard my story at all... I have been through many things in life and I still deal with it until now... I can say I am a strong woman but I dont just fall... once I fall, then I get up myself and learn my lesson as well. Life is like that... if a man doesn't know what the value of family mean then let him goes. ONCE day, he will realized how much it mean to him. Who pull you back in the same spot? your dad? how? if he never call or do anything good to you. If you keep on your schedule then you have to forget who treat you bad and keep on going on what you want to do. wishing you good luck
• United States
18 Jan 10
thank you so much for your advice.