waht is more important ........friends or lover

@warwic (33)
India
January 20, 2010 3:10am CST
i just wanna know what u think..... is it ok with to have just friends not love or is it ok with u to have only love not friends. can u sacrifice ur love for friends,or ur friends for love.
5 responses
@Wismay (2037)
• India
20 Jan 10
It is like asking "Can you sacrifice your mom for dad or dad for mom?" You need both. They are not substitutes for each other. Both are different and both have their own places in a person's life. So as we need an eye and also an ear, We need both friendship and love. Welcome to MyLot! Happy Mylotting!
@foumi7 (45)
• India
20 Jan 10
hey friend when i read ur discussion am quite glad . and i really agreed with ur response. there is no substitute for a friend or lover. each of them had their part in our lifes
• India
20 Jan 10
i dont no why have you got this confusion in your mind......m sure you must have got trapped in a situation in which you have to choose any 1 ............... it is really difficult or nearly impossible to answer this question.......for comparison or example its like............choose between food or water...... as you need water and food both for surviving in the same way one need friends as wel as a lover for yourself.............. you cannot lead life alone .. you need your dear ones around.
@skbrence (475)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
Hi there warwic. I think those two factors are really our NECESSITIES. But if I were to choose only one, I would pick "Friendship" (for now, since I'm not in a relation... xD) I chose Friendship because friendship never fades... that's the reason why. xD
@skbrence (475)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
FRIENDS I mean... not Friendship... xD
• China
20 Jan 10
Hi,warwic,welcome to mylot,er...I have to say ur question is hard for me give an answer.Choose between friend and love is a dilemma,they r both soooo important to me. I haven't been in such dilemma before and I hope I won't ,forever.Have a nice day and enjoy my lotting.:)
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
Hi warwic. Based on the numbers of posts you made i can say that you're new so before i answer you question let me welcome you to this site. Now to answer you question...well...it depends. I can do both. I recall having to sacrifice my friendship for love when a friend of mine and myself fell in love with the same woman. In love, the best man wins. And fortunately, i won. Now the woman is now my wife. But it somehow put a distance between me and friend. Cheers!
• India
21 Jan 10
Both of them are different but both have equal importance in life as one from other. nobody for me can live without one of the other . In some case both are quite close to one another. Nobody according to my senses can . Value of both live there is much need for every one. value of both are much . I cant describe as to i don't have much words to describe them.