What do you think of having a relationship with someone who is a Divorcee?
By maria1081
@maria1081 (1251)
Philippines
January 20, 2010 3:56am CST
I'm curious with your opinion regarding having a relationship with someone who is a divorcee. I never dated someone who has that kind of status. Do you think it is a disadvantage with someone who is never been married? Have you dated someone who was a divorcee?
3 responses
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
Having an extra baggage in the divorcee's part is what I have been thinking of like what if she/he has a child. And so with the emotional baggage that she/he has because of a failure marriage. He/she might not want to marry anymore which is different from what I think of about marriage.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Every one deserves a second chance. For me, the only thing that you have to consider in dating a divorcee is if he had kids in his previous relationship. Kids will,in one way or another, will be a problem in your relationship. which means that he will not be able to give you 100% of his time because he owe some to his kids, not to mention that he need to support theses kids. But given that there are no kids and they just got divorced because they can't get along then i see no reason why you should not date him. There's not much difference between him and those that have not gotten married yet except that he's been through what a married man's life is. And he'll be more cautious the next time.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
20 Jan 10
Dating a person who's been divorced is no different to dating someone who's never been married really..except the divorced person has 2 pcs of paper the single doesnt..A marriage cert. and divorce papers...



