have you ever left by your close friend?

@emediloy (701)
Indonesia
January 21, 2010 12:19am CST
Hi mylotters...have you ever left by your close friend?i do.it's happened when i was teen.i had a very close friend in high school.we always together and feel comfort each other.but everything went change when she started to date with a guy.she always ignore me and prefer to be with her boyfriend.she step away from me.i really dissapointed,it's kinda hurt me for long time.
3 responses
@nissin46 (54)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
...yeah. a lot of times... it's unavoidable.. i really don't understand that time did she left me despite the fact i 'm always at her side during her rough times.. is it because of love??.. no.. i don't think so.. but it happen... i was the one who introduces that guy.. that she fell in love.. to her. i'm not overprotecting her but i was reminded by her parents to take care of her.. so i'm just playing my role. at first, we have group dates, hang outs together.. later on when they told me that they were lovers.. everything ruined. i was left behind, need to make excuses.. lies to her parents just to make them the favor... so on.. until one day, she left her home, joining her boyfriend to his province without asking permission from her parents.. i was the who was blamed for what happened.. it really disappoints me.. it pisses me off.. when they return, i told to myself to detach from our friendship for the meantime.. just to heal the differences we created. i think it really worked out for both us not to speak for a long time just to realize that one.. we can be friends again.. and it happens.. we're together again but with limitations on our personal lives..
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
21 Jan 10
yeah..when everything get ruined,it's so hard to fix it.eventough we can be friend again,it's impossible to make everything back to normal again.i feel the same with you.anyway thanx 4 the response.happy mylotting!
@nautilus33 (1827)
21 Jan 10
Hi! Yes, I have been left several times by some close friend of mine. It actually was just one( I mean by one friend), and it was my best friend. That happened mostly on his birthdays or at the parties that he made. I lived to far from him, and I and some other friends left by him, but we didn't left to take a sleep there- no, we made fun all night long and when the sun came up we all go home!
• China
21 Jan 10
Hi,emediloy.It happened to me once when I was in my high school.She is my deskmate. And we became close friends after we became deskmate a few days later.We talked a lot at that time, and we helped each other on studying.But suddenly one day,she didn't talk to me any more, and I didn't know why this would happen without warning.I never dare to ask her why she treated me like this.And now we become friends again,I still have no courage to her for a reason.I am so timid and I am not sure if I have this right.