January 21, 2010 4:41am CST
i got this message from a friend's Facebook wall" "IF YOU ARE A WIFE who has a WONDERFUL HUSBAND, one that works extremely hard, one that gives up practically anything just to make you happy, then... RE-POST THIS!! ...its time to honour and appreciate the great men in our lives!!" i have second thoughts reposting this. i have a good husband, one who is faithful, loving, loyal, no vices, etc. but sadly, he is not the provider that i would want to have. but i guess, we can;t have everything. there may be men who are good providers but they also give a lot of headaches and heartaches to their wives. so i still reposted this to my wall, to honor and celebrate my husband. he is the one that God has given to me and we will live the rest of our lives together. how about you? would you repost this too?
25 Jan 10
interesting question.. like u said - "we cant have everything".. no one is perfect - not my husband, definitely not me.. and yes, totally agree that "he is the one that God has given to me and we will live the rest of our lives together".. my dear husband - i have known him since 1988, we got married in 1993.. and along the way - he had fallen in love, and 'almost' married another girl (we are allowed polygamy).. but somehow - WE - survived all the obstacles, and whatever hardships that come along our way.. and despite it all.. i still love him, he does his best to provide for the family, he still cares very much about me.. we both have our shortcomings.. he loves me anyway.. acceptance.. tolerance, understanding.. so.. yes, i do have a wonderful husband, and yes - i will gladly tell the world about it..
22 Jan 10
I am really very proud of my husband because not only that he is a good provider, he is also a loving husband and father. Though we a re miles away from each other now, we make it a point to be in contact with each other everyday because we believe that communication is one of the most important factor in a relationship. have a good day.
22 Jan 10
well i guess we cant have both worlds. what matters is who we with right now is the one we loved the most, and contented for who he was. if u were contented with him then theres no reason for u not be happy at all. and be thankful coz gave the partner u ask for. as for me dont have a husband yet but i have a son. i just hope someday soon i can find someone that i really want in my life, loves me and most importantly loves and accepts my son. HAVE A NICE DAY!!!!!
22 Jan 10
Hi spoiled A good discussion, my husband is a wonderful husband too, because he tries to keep me and my children happy all the time when ever he is at home in holidays. He is the one who understands me and try to help me and my children when ever we need his help. He is a man who respects women because he thinks there is no man without a woman and she struggles a lot to give birth to a child and works hard to bring them up. Each and every one who know my husband say that he is equal to God and I am very lucky to have him as a husband and I thank God for that every day in my prayers. What else any woman want than husband's love. Have a nice day.
21 Jan 10
I just got married last December 18 2009 so I am fairly new to this whole husband and wife thing. This might not mean much since it is coming from a newbie, but I believe you are still one of the lucky ones to have a husband who is faithful, loving, loyal, etc. money, we can earn easily but to meet someone like your husband is not that all easy, in fact guys like them are hard to come by these days. as for me, I am just as lucky cause I also have a husband who loves me so so much and does everything to make me happy. so yes, I'm going to repost this!:)
• United States
21 Jan 10
You are lucky and you know it! How wonderful is that? Material things only bring some happiness and that can be very fleeting. Far better to have a loving giving husband who tries to give you everything even tho at times he can't. Life goes thru many changes but having a faithful loving partner by your side makes every day richer and more special. I wish you all the Best!! Be Well!!
• South Africa
21 Jan 10
Yes, i Will definately repost this. I am going to gloat now, so roll your eys and take a sigh, but i just have to do this. My hubby is the best thing that ever happened to me. He adores me, always greet me in the mornings witH, i love you, and tonight when he picks me up from work i get the, haVe i told you today that i love you. He provides more than anough and the best off all, he trust me enough to work with his salary. Can you beieve that he ask for a few bucks, as he can only take the card and go draw it himelf, but he never work with any of our cards. I know, to much, no not rally. It is been 17 years now and believe me, i am the luckiest girl alive. You know, my husband couldn,t provide for 3 years, but i still loved him. It is not the provision that is importan. I am sure i do not have to tell you what is. You have yourself a glorious day and just be happy.
21 Jan 10
my father is just like your husband! he's hardworking, loving and kind but never a good business man. lol. before i really didn't appreciate him, sometimes i resent him because he can't give me what i want materially speaking. but as i grew older i realized how lucky i am to have him as a father. i'm so proud of him!
21 Jan 10
yes i will. nobody is perfect but it is hard to find a wonderful husband. he may not have all the adjectives mentioned above but for me he is wonderful. i am pregnant right now, he is very excited and very caring, though is already caring before. though we have small differences, we can easily patch it up by understanding, giving and forgiving. past should never brought back during arguments and never fight because of money. you are lucky because your husband is with you. i have just read a discussion telling his husband is gone. he actually leave her and she is pregnant. sometimes we just see what we want to see, and we cannot see what we already have because we are busy looking at others belongings...