If somebody Talks to you Arrogantly Do you talk back Arrogantly

India
January 21, 2010 7:42am CST
If somebody Talks to you Arrogantly Do you talk back Arrogantly Or you keep you cool and try and understand his point of view or you just forgive and forget
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
If I could still understand the reason why is there is arrogance in the way he or she speaks, I guess I would still keep my cool about it and listen carefully to what he or she is talking about. Yet, if that person is being arrogant with something unreasonable, I would try to embarass that person with some slight remarks that does prove him or her wrong about whatever it is that he or she is bragging about.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Yeah, even if they do have a reason to be arrogant, its not really nice to just brag about something that you are proud of and showing it off to other people just makes it even worse. I guess we should just let them brag about it until they are tired since, everyone at least deserves their own gratification (^_^")
• India
26 Jan 10
if there is any reason for being arrogant we should be calm and take positive in it.should always be positive.should never be discouraged by such words.at most if u feel restless just leave that place.thank u .bye
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• Philippines
21 Jan 10
honestly, im gonna walk off or just pretend i didn't hear anything.i hate talking and listening to arrogant people.
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• India
24 Jan 10
Hi ! moonshine20 I would do the same Thank you for responding
• India
26 Jan 10
yes its a good thing for such kind of people. just don't care them.respond to my discussios also bye
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
21 Jan 10
That depends on the circumstances. There is a saying that "a soft word turns away wrath" but sometimes that only works if the person you are dealing with is playing with a full deck. Sometimes it is a fact of life that to survive we have to fight. Of course, I choose my fights very carefully, because of my strong instinct to win. If someone is just blowing off steam I am more likely to let it pass by, but if someone is on a power trip and picking on someone smaller and weaker, even if it is just verbally, then I am likely to jump in and verbally demolish the aggressor, as with some people that is the only way they learn.
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• India
26 Jan 10
yes you are correct.we should respond to things based on their arrogant mind.man handle if necessary and its a correct method for such people.good response
• India
21 Jan 10
I never reply arrogantly to a person who speaks to me arrogantly. Never. Rather I try to understand the situation keeping my cool.
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• India
26 Jan 10
we have to think before we speak to such kind of arrogant people.though u reply it should be just few words.thank u.bye
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@enieweiz (97)
25 Jan 10
for me it depends on the person. if the person just naturaly talks like he or she is about to argue with me then i could cool it just a little bit. but if the person just talks like that for no apparent reason then i backfire. i would have to defend myself naturally. i don't like being talked down. i would eventually have to argue with that person.
• India
26 Jan 10
we should argue when it comes to our prestage issue.we have to defend ourselve before such arrogant people.thank u bye
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• India
26 Jan 10
Based on the situation i will respond to him.Though he speak arrogantly if it is for my good i will simply hear him and grasp the good things for me.If he talks unnecessarily i just quit from that place.If he does it repeatedly i will make him and motivate him not to do like that.If possible i will take a big lecture also.
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
I'm the type of person that just let it go at first, think about what happened and observe. If they are arrogant to me the second time and it is also timely that Im not in a good mood, then I'll give them a piece of what they deserve....HAHAHAHAH