Babies

@BrendaA (365)
United States
November 15, 2006 8:55am CST
I notice that a lot of women are having babies before they get married. Do you have an opinion on this trend?
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10 responses
16 Nov 06
WHEN WOMEN DONT HAVE PROBLEM WHAT PROB WOULD I HAVE ??
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@raeleighb (384)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Why does it matter? As long as the baby is loved and provided for then who cares if the parents are married. I was born before my parents got married.
@BrendaA (365)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I really do think that it matters to a child as they get older. There is an order to things that never seems to change through the generations.
• Philippines
16 Nov 06
when you got a baby before tying the knot obviously you have committed fornication-..in the old times and in the NIV book it's considered a curse..up to 3rd generation it will remain like a family stronghold w/c you cnt hardly resist unless you decide to youself not to commit such..
• United States
16 Nov 06
I don't have a problem with it. Ideally they should be in a loving relationship with the baby's father but as long as they have support from family they will do fine. My parents had 2 children before they were married (I was about 4 or 5 when they finally did get married). I got pregnant before I was married and I was 3 months along at our wedding (we did not get married because I was pregnant--the wedding was planned before I even knew I was pregnant). My best friend had a baby right out of high school and she is doing just fine on her own with her daughter because she had a lot of support from her parents.
• Philippines
16 Nov 06
i think they just get married coz they got a baby already...they can't hold each other's pheromones most often it's not planned...no temptation had ever cease 'em except what is common to men..
@BrendaA (365)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Great answer. Thanks
• India
16 Nov 06
It all depends according to culture of the country. In India it is equal to sin. Because now and then people ask children their parents name.
@hemalover (829)
• Egypt
16 Nov 06
i think its a privte thing to talk about she have to do what she want
@meetsammy (578)
• India
15 Nov 06
well if a person thinks that he/she is ready for a baby, i mean they can handle her and become a proper gaurdian then whats the harm in it....many a people do that....amd there's no hard n fast for any women to be necessarily be married to have a mother....
@kcbabez14 (967)
• United States
15 Nov 06
i think a baby should be within a marraige but it doesn't always happen that way! like me for example.. i'm with my babys father and were planning on getting married next year, but when we had our son we were not marrried, but planning!
• India
16 Nov 06
whats there to have children before marrying.it varies from person to person.
@fl0urish (5384)
• India
16 Nov 06
yes i heard such situations..i think gals should be carefull coz finally the gals are who should suffer