What do you do when you feel alone?

@vycess (1588)
Saudi Arabia
January 23, 2010 9:01pm CST
I keep myself busy when I feel alone. But sometimes it's hard to do that. Sometimes I don't know what to do to suppress what I feel and just cry and after that I prefer to surf the net, face the computer to stop thinking of what I'm thinking.
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@mistlady (114)
• India
24 Jan 10
Yes, even I do feel lonely sometimes. I try to get over it by reading a book or watching tv, or surfing the internet just like you. Today is a Sunday in my country. I am off work, my people are busy with their own activities. I am feeling a little lonely and I'm thinking of what to do. I think I will watch a movie on television and crochet a little doiley.
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• India
24 Jan 10
Sometimes, i feel very lonely, a bit depressed and idle. I stay in hostel for higher studies. So, i go out in my bike and i feel very much relaxed. Then i visit a temple near by my hostel, where the scent has a very much calming effect. I sit there for sometime and then i feel much much better. Then, i go to my friends and have a lot of fun that really changes my mood. We friends use to tease each other,that's really very very amusing. During holidays, i go to my home. When i feel lonely,i just switch on the movie and refresh myself. I talk with my friends over phone or start chatting in the internet. Listening to music is also sometimes changes my mood.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
25 Jan 10
Well, when I feel alone, I sometimes would sing aloud or just go to sleep. People would feel alone for several days in a due time. I think it's normal and I haven't taken it too seriously.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Jan 10
vycess yes being busy sometimes helps. but often when I feel like this I talk to my roommmate for awhile and that makes me feel better. Or i geton here and mylot and find someone who is in real trouble, and mine evaporate and my tears do too. I like to help people and in helping someone else I have helped myself to feel good again. Cry on our shoulders vycess we my lotters have broad ones and can help you to not feel alone. we can make you laugh or at least smile. like the other day my computer refused to let me log on. I wanted to get hold of my computer nerd son to have him come and trouble shoot my computer.So I sit down and try to send an email,uh wait a minute you cannot log on. oh right I cannot log on. okay. now did you smile I hope so. so come see us when you feel like that,we can do something silly at least to give you a chuckle. like the man who called the computer repair line to get help and the man asked him if the monitor was on, oh yes but its not working. Is the modem plugged in .oh yes.well is the computer off and on switch turned to on,oh yes, well now check the wall outlet is the computer plugged in. the man says well I will need to get a flashlight first,the repair man says,whatever for, the man with the computer says, oh its too dark in here cause the power is off all over our street.,now please you just gotta laugh okay?
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
24 Jan 10
Thank you to all of you.. Yeah being here in mylot really helps and people do respond to you and some are really concern and not only thinking to earn money. I like here because I meet nice people and new friends.
@anthony89 (154)
• United States
25 Jan 10
When I feel alone I try putting on some music making sure that the music is upbeat. A lot of times I also exercise doing cardio or lifting weights and that seems to help me get over my loneliness. Every once in a while I do some yoga breathing exercises and that really helps as well. You should feel alone and cry. No one should have to feel that way. You can talk to me I'll cheer you up. :)
24 Jan 10
I'm Just Listening Music... Hard Rock Music... Its The Best Way To Run Away From Lonely...
@banban (601)
• China
24 Jan 10
Hey, vycess. So sorry to hear that when you feel alone, you don't know what to do. Emm, I think we all need to keep busy especially when we feel alone. You can try to reading some books that you wanna read but don't have time to do it before. Or, you can just surfing the Internet to get some interesting informations. When I have nothing planned to do, I would like to do some reading, watching movies, or do some cleaning jobs. Besides, I will also do yoga, listening to the music, or try to use English to improve it.
@sherwinm (149)
• India
24 Jan 10
Hi!! I'm mostly alone at home because my parents work and i will feel terrible at home before. But now I am working and when I am alone I tend to keep myself busy and work online and browse something and try finding new things that keeps me engaged and just pass away my time. Mylot is also one place which makes me pass off my time:)