will you turn to other people or try to entertain yourself when you're unhappy

China
January 23, 2010 11:45pm CST
are you good at pleasing yourself? I'm now trying to turn to myself coz I find it not that good to rely on other people to make me happy.what about you?
4 responses
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
24 Jan 10
hmm at some point, it's good to look for help when you are lost or when you really need help when depressed or something serious. But if it's just some little unhapinness, i will try to fix my own problems. I know that everyone has their own worries and i can't always burden the others to help me at every little things that bothers me. I just watch some comedy series for a good laugh to change my mood.
• India
24 Jan 10
It is much better to try and keep oneself amused rather than relying on others.Most people I know do not have either the time or the inclination to amuse any one else. Therefore, I rarely turn to someone else to lift my spirits excepting possibly , the friends here in Mylot, who are always there to help with a good word or two.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
24 Jan 10
hi,yes i also do not rely on others.But it would be good if we chat for a while or talk with others for a while.I try out listening music or being on ,my work to get out of the situation.I try doing something which makes me happy with my own ways.like playing with pets ,viewing some good movie.after some time we get normal.
@MimiRemo (418)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
I am capable of making myself happy, but I think it also needs some bringing about from other people at times. It could be collaborative; not just rely on myself alone or merely other people. Though I find it sweeter when somebody else does efforts for my happiness.