did you ever had a crush on any online friend??

India
January 24, 2010 8:54am CST
well when i first started doing i made many friends and most of them were known to me....then suddenly one day i had received a friend request from an unknown girl.she was pretty good looking and i decided to just add her then we suddenly came online together one day and started chatting...slowly we started chatting regularly...i really started liking her as a person,she was very free speaking which i liked then one day we shared opur phone numbers too and had a good relationship together,i started liking her a lot.... then one day i told her about my feelings and then camer to know that she already had a boyfriend..... that day was the end of our relationship...we never contacted each other after that day.....did you ever had a crush on any online friend??
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6 responses
• India
24 Jan 10
I had an online fling once with a girl.She was 3 years younger than me.We used to talk till morning .Finally i proposed.But she hesitated.Wee still have contact tough.I don't know if i loved her or not.I think it was just an infatuation.
• India
24 Jan 10
I am really glad to hear that
@tinalb (72)
• United States
24 Jan 10
I had an online fling with someone. And guess what? He is now my husband! ; )
@tinalb (72)
• United States
24 Jan 10
Thank you! Actually, I did know him in the real world, but we really got to know all about each other thru emails. I was very unhappily married to my ex at the time, so that was the only way for us to communicate ; )
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
24 Jan 10
Shame on her for beign such a tease. Really what were she thinking. And no never have and hopefully never will. I am really happily married and love my hubby to distraction. TATA.
• India
24 Jan 10
i dont know actually.if she really had a byfrnd then why did she come so close to me? its obvious that if you come so close to a person then that person is bound to develop some kind of feelings for you
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
24 Jan 10
Whatever the case may be. You do not play around with other people,s feeligs that way. It can have a devastating effect. No one want to go threw something like that. Do not make exuses for her. She were suppose to know better.
• India
24 Jan 10
you reached 500...:-) i know that but still......may be she thought that if she keeps friendship with me she may get distracted from her present relation
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
I would not say that he's an online friend since I've known him personally, but I'd say that I became attracted to him since our communication was only through online chat.. He has became more open through our online communication, something that he can't say personally. We rarely meet now since his location is two hours away from mine and we feed the communication through chat. :) It's just a "crush" anyway, since we're talking about crush here.. it's nothing serious anyway.. I was just attracted with his intelligence, his way of reasoning out.. those are just some of the things that I loved about him and that's all ;) I really don't expect it to grow into a full blown love :) Well it depends on him haha I'm always ready hehehehe kidding but as according to him he's courting another girl.. that's fine :) i'm used to it anyway haha.. Besides, we're entirely different.. age gap, maturity level, location, etc. so there's a low to zero chance that we can be together. :) Thanks for asking. Take care and God bless :)
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hello abhi, Well,i had same experience like this. He proposed...he did,we've been chatting for more than 4 years now,and also talking thru phone. He never missed to call me when i am not online. He is younger than me...and i know it's just crush..or admiration. He maybe loves me i don't know...but we really had a good relation with each other. I do believe in internet love affair,i've seen couples get wed after knowing each other from the net. But,in my case...it's not... I would rather keep good friends relationship...no strings attached. Sometimes,friendship lasts longer than having more of it...i just treat him as my younger brother...and asks him to feel the same. Have a good day always
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
27 Jan 10
crush, no. Best friend, No! i personally take online friend as just online friend. No more, no less but i do see a friend of mine getting married from online chats. and they are still in harmony up till this moment and it has been 2-3 years of marriage. So, it's not that i do not believe in this kind of thing but i just prefer contacts in person.
• India
20 Feb 10
I think that to find a online friend is very difficult. We make a pure friend online. It is only time pass. Your friend is too good to tell you that she already have a boyfriend. It is very good you and her. I think that this is nice end of two good friends.