love of kids

United States
January 24, 2010 11:10am CST
well i have had my kids,tho they are not with my i have 4 boys and their ages are 19,17,16 and 9 three of my kids are in washington st. and one here in cal.but i get to talk to them when i want too.and see the other one when he comes over for family dinner night here at home.but i wish sometimes i had all my boys here with me instend of with others,but i could not take care of them so they are with other but it is still hard to deal with someone else rising them.well i know i am jsut one of the many that have had their kids taken for one state or aother,so i am with those that have had this happen i know what it feels like to be without your kids.not to be able to put them to bed at night and things like hold them or anything like that.
1 response
• India
27 Jan 10
You may be one of many who are in a similar situation, however it does not diminish the pain you undergo. You have every right to feel sad about the outcome. Try and do something special with each one of them. Get to know their likes and dislikes in spite of the distance. Take care!
• United States
27 Jan 10
yeah i know some of what the boys like and dont but with the fostermom my two middle boys have i have not see or talked to them in a while evey time i call or anything i never get ahold of them it is like she does not want me to talk with them or something like that,but my youngest i talk to all the time and i am hoping to see him soon too,thanks for the comment back.