I was pregnant but had a miscarriage after one month...

@joyadalia (1408)
Philippines
January 26, 2010 9:01pm CST
My hubby and I have been married for more than 2 years. I got pregnant on the last quarter of last year. I was so excited about the baby but then I had a miscarriage at 4 weeks into the pregnancy. I fear that I might never become pregnant again . So many questions enter my mind. Will I still have a baby? When will I have a kid? Was it my fault? Was God punishing me for previous sins?
3 responses
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
I'm really very sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I dont think God is ever punishing you for the previous sins you had. Maybe its not really time yet and there's a reason for everything. Me and my husband got married last year April and its almost a year and I'm not pregnant yet. I also ask things and I have so many things in my mind. But they said that thinking more about it will be stressful and it could affect you conceiving a baby in the future. Just try to be positive and enjoy your onesomeness (if there's a word like this) with your husband.
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Thanks. We'll try enjoying that "onesomeness" .
26 Apr 10
So sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Please don't blame yourself,it wasn't your fault and God would never punish you this way. I can however understand how you feel as the same thing happened to me. I already a son of 2 years old when I became pregnant,we too were very excited about the prospect of a brother or sister for our little one,and I had a miscarriage at about 13 weeks. We never knew the reasons why this happened, I too was devastated, but the only thing I clung on to was that it was mothes natures way of saying I was not yet ready for another child. One year later I went on to have my beautiful daughter. My children are now 23 and 20. I do hope that you and your husband take heart from this and go on to have children.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
30 Jan 10
I am so sorry to hear that you suffered a miscarriage. It was not in any way your fault. God was not punishing you. It is sad when a baby gets miscarried and often the reason is difficult to understand. Perhaps there was something wrong in your pregnancy. It is encouraging that you got pregnant in the first place. It means you are fertile so you could get pregnant again in the future. You could try to conceive and then you will be likely to get pregnant. So you could possibly have a baby by this time next year. Miscarriages can sadly sometimes happen during the first 12 weeks of pregnancy. One of my friends miscarried her first child and then he had two successful pregnancies. Now she has two children and is very happy. Good luck.