Which is harder in loving?

January 26, 2010 9:42pm CST
which is harder? to try to love someone that loves you or to wait for someone you love to love you back.....
6 responses
@dhysanne (451)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
I think it is harder to wait for someone you love to love you back than to try to love someone that loves you. I'm into this kind of situation right now and I don't if I should give up or what. But I'm still hoping for the right time to come. If not for both of us, maybe next time I will try to love someone who will love me. Good day!
• China
28 Jan 10
In my opinion, both of them are hard. Maybe just wait someone who love u is easier. If you fail to love the man love u, it's harmful to him, if the person you wait never back, it's harmful to yourself. So just try to give up.
@yojitpr (29)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
for me it's easier to wait for someone to love you back cause it's easier to express to someone you love and in the end maybe that someone will learn to love you.
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
I think it depends with you.. as for me.. it's much harder to wait for someone to love me back since I am not the one who holds and controls his feelings.. but when it comes to trying to love someone who loves me back is a way easier since I am the one who handles my feelings.. but it will also depends to the person who loves me.. whether it will be easier for me to learn to love him.. it depends on his personality.. cause I usually love a person because of his personality.. it's easy for me to fall in love with a kind person rather to a person who has looks but indescribable attitude... :)
@mdehonor (31)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Both situation are hard. But its more harder to wait for a person to love you because you might wait forever. It will just give you false hope. Ruin your dreams in the end. You might as well try to love someone that loves you. Its better that he loves you more than you love him.
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
27 Jan 10
Hi sparklingpink..i think the harder is try to love someone that loves me. i'm a very sensitive one, i alwasy try not to hurt someone's feeling. if someone loves me much and i don't, its gonna make me confuse, in the other side i don't love him but i don't wanna hurt him. its kinda a dillema. so, its very hard for me to try love someone that loves me.because love can't be compelled.
@shylade (3135)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
hi! for me its harder to wait for someone you love to love you. its harder because its more painful. you do not know where you standing because you are hanging into something you are not sure if will still come. its like always waiting for something everyday of your life. so why wait for something you can not do something about when there is someone who is loving you. you just have to open your heart. but if love does not really come between you, you do not have to insist. because love will come at the right place and in the right time.