How Often U Use PMs in Mylot
By sunnycool
@sunnycool (12714)
India
January 27, 2010 4:56am CST
How often do you use PM(personal messages---i guess) in mylot.
Are you aware of those which can be used to disturb
some friends while having an good chat with them and they come handy when our so called humour backfires on us.
When was the first time you have used them in here---if it were used to send an referral link to join your downline for an money making site or you wanted to calm down an argument 
you both had while discussing in an serious discussion.
I use PM very often to----apologise(mostly coz knowingly or unknowingly i might hurt some friends with my funny words---its been a routine though
) or to have an good chat with my fans.
How about you---when was the last time you have used them.
some friends while having an good chat with them and they come handy when our so called humour backfires on us.
When was the first time you have used them in here---if it were used to send an referral link to join your downline for an money making site or you wanted to calm down an argument you both had while discussing in an serious discussion.
I use PM very often to----apologise(mostly coz knowingly or unknowingly i might hurt some friends with my funny words---its been a routine though) or to have an good chat with my fans.
How about you---when was the last time you have used them.2 people like this
27 responses
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
27 Jan 10
Hi Sunny, I use PM only when I need to. Of course, I do not send referral links to others or ask others to do the same. I am not very fond of referral links.
I use PM to know my friends better. I also disturb them for information and sometimes with updates on certain things.
The last time I used PM? Well that is a hard one. Can't really remember. I guess, it was last night. I was talking to PA.
I use PM to know my friends better. I also disturb them for information and sometimes with updates on certain things.
The last time I used PM? Well that is a hard one. Can't really remember. I guess, it was last night. I was talking to PA.1 person likes this
@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
27 Jan 10
Sagnik, I was going to have to reach out and slap you with one of MysD's hands (since I do not seem to have any myself) if you had not remembered that we spoke just yesterday in a PM, especially since you spurred me on to reach such a momentous number.
Sunny, perhaps if you referred to us as "friends" like Sagnik does rather than as "fans", then you would have more responses back from people and you wouldn't think that you were disturbing them.
Sunny, perhaps if you referred to us as "friends" like Sagnik does rather than as "fans", then you would have more responses back from people and you wouldn't think that you were disturbing them.@sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Jan 10
how dare you to send an PM to one of my fans-----
they would help us to know our mylot friends better and get our differences cleared if any and then the never ending story starts
I had disturbed quiet a few intially with my silly questions---they never replied though haha
they would help us to know our mylot friends better and get our differences cleared if any and then the never ending story starts
I had disturbed quiet a few intially with my silly questions---they never replied though haha
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
27 Jan 10
Seems like it is just as well that there is a PM system here if you have that many fans
I can't remember what my first PM was all about but I do use them a lot, a heck of a lot. I find some PMs waiting for me every single day when I wake and we have some really long conversations (even up to four pages sometimes).
I agree that they are useful for clearing up mistakes but also for helping out with things that can't be mentioned on the discussions.
I have just one fault with them and Alice already has it one her wish list. When new referrals sign up they can't use them unless they accept the automatic friend request
The last time I used them was just before posting this response 
I can't remember what my first PM was all about but I do use them a lot, a heck of a lot. I find some PMs waiting for me every single day when I wake and we have some really long conversations (even up to four pages sometimes).
I agree that they are useful for clearing up mistakes but also for helping out with things that can't be mentioned on the discussions.
I have just one fault with them and Alice already has it one her wish list. When new referrals sign up they can't use them unless they accept the automatic friend request
The last time I used them was just before posting this response
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Jan 10
I know that ---you're one senior mylotter who would be really busy clarifying doubts and you get back to themvery soon.
I have been awaiting your response for my PM which was send 4 days ago and you say that you reply every other message you get
One difficulty i face in their usage is to pass on messages beyond 14(back and forth).if i try to make an 15 reply it would be lost---while i think i have sent it and the other one keeps on waiting later i get to know that i the message wasnt delivered.
And then I have to open a new thread to continue the flow which is really tiring
very soon.
I have been awaiting your response for my PM which was send 4 days ago and you say that you reply every other message you get
One difficulty i face in their usage is to pass on messages beyond 14(back and forth).if i try to make an 15 reply it would be lost---while i think i have sent it and the other one keeps on waiting later i get to know that i the message wasnt delivered.
And then I have to open a new thread to continue the flow which is really tiring1 person likes this
@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
27 Jan 10
Sunny - If MysD only answers every other PM, and she keeps you waiting for days with no reply, then you must always be the odd one out.
MysD - I am not sure how you and Sunny find the time to post comments on the boards with all the PMing that you do, although yours is generally to help people and Sunny's is to keep in contact with all his "fans".
MysD - I am not sure how you and Sunny find the time to post comments on the boards with all the PMing that you do, although yours is generally to help people and Sunny's is to keep in contact with all his "fans". @sagnik42 (3592)
• India
27 Jan 10
Or most of the times disturbing them...
I agree PA, Sunny seems to be the odd one out. I had asked MYSD for help a couple of times and she had responded immidiately.
She must have her reasons to keep him in waiting.
Sunny, I did not know about the 15 responses limit/problem. Does this happen to the others as well?
I agree PA, Sunny seems to be the odd one out. I had asked MYSD for help a couple of times and she had responded immidiately. She must have her reasons to keep him in waiting.
Sunny, I did not know about the 15 responses limit/problem. Does this happen to the others as well?
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
hello sunny!
hmmm, i think its been 5 days ago since the last time i use pm. hehe i usually use it to send some greetings to some of my friends, sometimes if i want to ask something that i cannot write on discussions,
i have some friends here whom i talk with through pm and there we talk about things that we can't tackle on discussion area and we get to know more about each other through pm.
so you do have lots of fans here yeah? haha
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
haha, yeah, with my friend we really have lots of things to talk about and since pm is private we can even use our own language there...haha making the conversation easier!
well i have also used it before to disturb someone...haha and we just ends up taking in ym coz its faster...
yay! yeah, i can see it and now i am thinking if i am also one of your so called fans! wahahaha!
hmp! i don't receive it yet...hehe maybe you can send me more so that we can bring life, sagnik & pa along...hehe and of course you!
yay! yeah, i can see it and now i am thinking if i am also one of your so called fans! wahahaha!
hmp! i don't receive it yet...hehe maybe you can send me more so that we can bring life, sagnik & pa along...hehe and of course you!@sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Jan 10
you're welcome to my fan club ckyera----so girls have something else to discuss about and i dont even dare to ask you about those
your new group contains only four---let me know if there is enough space for all my fans coz i treat all of them equally and help them tooo
your new group contains only four---let me know if there is enough space for all my fans coz i treat all of them equally and help them tooo@sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Jan 10
hi ckyera,
I only use them to clear my doubts while disturbing others.we cannot write every thing in discussions----- i can understand that basically girls have a lot to talk about if i'm not wrong.coming to fans---have a look around and conclude .did you receive your tickets for the 5D show???
great day.
.did you receive your tickets for the 5D show???
great day.
@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
29 Jan 10
i dont use pms here.
but if some one sent me the pm, and if not only for asking me for his/her referal, i'll reply with pm too. 
@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
30 Jan 10
u'r giving very great advice.
so sorry, my profile name has nothing relation with my birthday. @purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
27 Jan 10
I use the PM system fairly often. Some days I will be PMing several people at one time, and other days I might not use it at all. I do not remember who my first PM was from, because it was so long ago. In fact, I had not realized that we had that ability until I had received the PM. Before, I had gotten messages from task creators regarding my tasks, but I had not realized that they were PMs (or perhaps they weren't, but they are listed under my messages, so I think they are).
As you found out earlier, while I did PM Life yesterday, my last PM was to Sagnik.
@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
27 Jan 10
No, I saw them and read them, but I just did not realize that they were PMs. I thought that they were just meant for communication between the task creators and the members that accepted the tasks. I did not realize that they were meant for all members to communicate with each other (well, at least the members on your friends list). I was not very active on the boards in the beginning, though, so that is probably why I did not realize.
I thought that it was very nice that our last PMs were to each other, and yes, I think it is romantic
... but we had better not let Sunny find out or he might get jealous that you might be stealing one of his "fans".
... but we had better not let Sunny find out or he might get jealous that you might be stealing one of his "fans". @sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Jan 10
It is one good means in mylot to interact with friends personally 
and sort out some things.Initially i never knew the usage of these later i used to see some numbers increasing by the messages
tab and then started checking those and was shocked to see few referal links---and it has come a long way to get to friends and i have started using them for the last two months or so.
and sort out some things.Initially i never knew the usage of these later i used to see some numbers increasing by the messages tab and then started checking those and was shocked to see few referal links---and it has come a long way to get to friends and i have started using them for the last two months or so.
@KompitaPita (2051)
• Bulgaria
27 Jan 10
Well, I use the PMs in My Lot almost everyday. We are talking about everything with some of my friends and fans.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Jan 10
hi kompi good to see you in blue star sweetie-----the first box over there was just an comment
-----the first box over there was just an comment1 person likes this
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Jan 10
she was my first responder kompi so i had to offer her something
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@KompitaPita (2051)
• Bulgaria
27 Jan 10
Yeah,yeah.... Does my blonde hair making me look like a fool?!?
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
28 Jan 10
I know about these but, I do not use them much.
If I need to contact some one personally I will,
through these methods. I like that you can, if
you would like to know about some one's website.
I like to look at the money making websites, and
see if I can get some ideas to make more money.
Happy posting.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Jan 10
hi Jezzmay,
The first thing i would do when i visit someones profile is to check out their blog for new money making oppurtunities--and is tumble upon few sites though and start working on them after some investigating .
Thank you for responding.great day.
.
Thank you for responding.great day.
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
31 Jan 10
I have used the PM system here only a few times. I have usesd it recenltly to one of my on-line frineds here. I use it to disscuss persoanl thoiughts and feeling I do not want to post on the disscusion post. but i rarly use it here but it is there when I needed it.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
1 Feb 10
hi scififan---no one would be ready to post their personal information in the normal discussions until and unless they really dont mind doing it.we can use the PM to get to know well and share our email though.Thank you for responding.great day.
.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Jan 10
just try to explore few tabs on your home page you would get accustomed to those very quickly coz this isn't rocket science.have a nice day.
.have a nice day.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
hello sunny,
I don't often use PM to message friends here in mylot.
I only use it to reply when friends send me PM...
Maybe,once a week or twice in a week,depending on what message a friend has sent me,that i need to give a response and the message keep going on for a day or two.
Have a good day always
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
hello again,
honestly,i don't usually start sending PM,and,not becoz it's tiring or what,i can give my chat messenger if i want,but,it's not my habit to offer and give my ym either.
Well,i had few good friends here in mylot whom i can relate with and exchange PM constantly.
@venkatachary (1165)
• India
28 Jan 10
I have only recently joined My lot a month ago.However I have approved friends soon I will be sending PM.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Jan 10
spamming the spammers is really good until and unless the both suceed in getting referals else it would be waste.If you had some close friends then you would have knew the matters you can share with them.great day.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Jan 10
hi venkata chary,
you have approved some friends to send messages----so you ready to send them your referal links poor guyz dont spam them too much man---else you would be out of there lists
Thank you for responding.great day.
----so you ready to send them your referal links poor guyz dont spam them too much man---else you would be out of there lists
Thank you for responding.great day.@venkatachary (1165)
• India
29 Jan 10
I have sent referral link after they ask me to send. Then in what way the PM should be used.Personal Message means person to person contact. When we have not seen each other face to face and we have not known personally then what personal message will be there except sharing the business what we do on line.
@manojach87 (147)
• India
29 Jan 10
So we have a PM here too! That was the first thought that came to my mind when I joined mylot. But I have never used the service! Not even once! I mean we already have a lot of them to worry about. I have not used it because I already have another one! Thanks!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Jan 10
Already have a lot to worry about--what you mean by that are you refering to the tabs or options mylot has provided us I dont get you exactly.
Thank you for responding.great day.
--what you mean by that are you refering to the tabs or options mylot has provided us I dont get you exactly.
Thank you for responding.great day.@manojach87 (147)
• India
2 Feb 10
I mean there's a pm for every service I register. So have to worry a lot! See!
@monojdhole (200)
• India
28 Jan 10
I rarely use PM in myLot. Sometimes I do this to reply received PM.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Jan 10
hi monojdhole,
Welcome to mylot-----it too early to decide i guess if you use them very often or rarely---coz you have only 91 posts to your credit----so hangon a little and make friends and then you would start using it very often.
Thank you for responding.great day.
.@monojdhole (200)
• India
29 Jan 10
Yes, I think it is too early to decide for me.
Thanks for your opinion.
Have a great day.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
30 Jan 10
Those are a good means to share something very personal.Thank you for responding.great day.
.@sunnycool (12714)
• India
1 Feb 10
you're just twenty away from your 200---you would get to use the emoticons then.great going.
.great going.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Jan 10
we never shared an PM right---may be i should use it now coz I want to discuss something very serious which should be between us
so check out my PM meanwhile thank you for responding.great day. @zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
28 Jan 10
Hi there Sunny,
I sometimes still have lots of problems in my messaging system. After putting the tags, sometimes the messages still cannot be passed through. Therefore, sometimes, I encourage friends to exchange emails with me, since my pm is not working out too well. Even if it passes through, normally I try 2-3 times before the message gets sent out.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Jan 10
hi Zed,Even i face the same problem as you---whenever i try to add messages they get lost in the middle---while i took it granted that it was delivered to the recepient where as they wait for my message eagerly and i had to start a new thread again and type in the same.This happens after sending 14 back and forth messages.
Thank you for responding.great day.
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Jan 10
wow people receiving your personal messages must be really lucky i guess
Thank you for responding.great day.
Thank you for responding.great day.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
28 Jan 10
i find that i have few use PM in mylot.although i know i can communicate with others through the PM,but i dont like this way to communicate with others.because as private message,i dont have private topics to chat with them.at the same time i have made an attempt to chat with others,i send private message to greet others.but they dont chat with me.so i dont like this way to chat with others.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Jan 10
may be you havent started using it to the fullest bingchen---if you have more friends then you wouldnt have said that it bores you---hope you get to make some good friends with whom you can chat with happily.
Thank you for responding.great day.
.@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Jan 10
Thats was quiet affirmative-----so you do respond to every other message you get.you're sooo good .Thank you for responding.great day.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Jan 10
hi Gissing,Welcome to mylot---good to know that you have started using your PM man coz i havent used it until i reached my 25 posts i guess.so have a great time making friends in here.
Thank you for responding.great day.
.