What chores do your little ones do around the house?

@livewyre (2450)
January 27, 2010 11:14am CST
I need to think of some things that are not too risky that little girls of between 5 and 8 years of age can do around the house to 'help out'. Of course, they may not be actually helping in reality, but I am mainly looking for things that at least give them the impression that they are contributing. Please tell me what things you have your kids doing, or just use your imagination and give me some good ideas.
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@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
hi I have my three year old son, I usually let him fix his toys, or to get towel in the cabinet, some times I asked him to get and reach me over the dust pan or the brooms. and when I am cleaning the house I also let him wipes the table and the chairs, get rags some rags out door. And he seems enjoying with what he's doing. yes, you can let them do things by themselves but be sure its not risky for them. Happy mylotting.
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@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
I thought it was a three-year-olds job to break the toys and Daddy's job to fix them - If you can get a three year old to fix toys, send him round your friends houses, their Daddy's will be very grateful...
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• Philippines
28 Jan 10
oh, im sorry... I mean I let him pick-up his own toys and put it back in the place where it should be. not fixing, I'm the one who always fix his toys, but if its broke and there's no any remedy, then i'll just throw it.
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• Canada
27 Jan 10
My girls are older now (and still don't help out as much as I'd like them too LOL well at least not without some reminders!) but, when they were young, they did help out with small chores too. Besides the more obvious picking up and putting away their own toys and such, I found they could easily handle some dusting, emptying waste baskets into the main trash can, putting newspapers into the recycling bin, feeding the dog or letting him in and out. Some of that age can also handle drying dishes or putting things in the dishwasher.
• Canada
28 Jan 10
Oh I see the issue... if height is a problem, sit or kneel down on the floor in various areas of the house and get the viewpoint that your child sees :) From there, you might determine that the child could "help with dinner" by getting you things from the lower shelves or bins in the fridge, getting out the right pots and pans, etc. (saves you all the bending!). My girls used to also shake out the rugs or bathmats when they were smaller or water the plants (if there isn't much danger of ruining furniture that they may sit on).
@livewyre (2450)
29 Jan 10
She's quite short (like her parents...) so some things are just not safe or practical for her. I like the idea of kneeling down to get a better perspective though...
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
That's along the same sort of lines as we are going, one of the problems is everything is too tall, washing up is OK, but has to be done on a stool. The trash is in these tall wheelie bins now - which are just that bit too high.. Recycling is popular, so that's a definite...
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 10
Being the 2nd born in the family of 10 children I had been trained from young to help in the daily household chores from the age of 6 to water the flowers, sweeping the floor and boiling rice. When I grow older I was asked to babysit for my younger brothers and sisters. As my mom has a phobia for tidiness and cleanliness, she always make sure that we put back books properly in the shelf when we took them out. Every morning she would swipe her fingers on the table to see whether I have dusted the table well. When mom saw dusts on her fingers I will get another scolding from her. She would lecture me everyday when the house is in a mess. I would often quarrel with my elder sister on the division of the household chores but in the end I always give in. I didn't realize the goodness of this early training that my mom has enforced on me until I am on my own. It taught me to be a house proud as my house is always spotlessly tidy and clean unlike some of my friends house. They can't keep their houses tidy which I can't even call a home but a pigsty.
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
I believe there needs to be a balance, I don't want to give my child hang ups about cleanliness, but I do want her to learn to work in order for everyone to have a nicer home to live in. Even if it just means small tasks - the thing is that I know she wants to get involved, I just need some guidance as to what sort of tasks I can reasonably have her doing.
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
2 Feb 10
My 4 year old son cleans up the playroom and the bedroom.. He loves the wii so there is no playing the wii till he cleans up.. ANd to believe it or not he does a great job. My 1 year old is still very young however I make him help me with folding laundry. He thinks its the greatest thing.
@livewyre (2450)
1 Mar 10
My apologies for missing this answer, I do try and respond to everyone... It's surprising how enthusiastic they can be for some very mundane tasks. My little one has just been given a second-hand console game, so we are using that as the thing she will not be allowed to play with until she has carried out various tasks... though to be fair those are tasks such as getting dressed and eating lunch, not working her fingers to the bone on real housework...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Hello livewyre, I teach my kids simple houseworks as early as 2 years old. I teach them to put their toys at the rack or from where they have taken it. In this manner,it will be easier for them to do simple things by themselves. By the age of 5 my kids can start making their beds when they woke up. Tidy up their tables(study table)put their things on the right place. By the age of 8,they can clean their own rooms already. Those were the simple things my kids can do as they grow up. Now,they can cook their own foods(simple recipe) Like boiled/fried egg,hotdog and other cold cuts and ready to cook foods. Just teach them to do their own things,keep their toys and other belonging in place. Teach them how to make their beds and arranged their clothes in the closet. Like separating the undies from socks and blouses to shorts and others. Teach them to fold their own clothes too. Those were simple houseworks and also safe ones. Have a good day always
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
Oh that's a good one, she has so many clothes, and putting them in the right place all folded up would be really helpful (We usually let them build up in a big pile, so that would be perfect). This is the best idea so far, really simple but something enjoyable, safe and useful too.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
hello livewyre, thanks for the mark...wish your little angels will be a good help for you now
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
if i have a kid. first i will give a disipline . because i think for human being first thing that must learn is disipline. if she/he have disipline he can help you doing basic things like put the things in right place and also playing in a good way for not to become a violent child.
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
You will be surprised how difficult it is to actually keep to that resolve once it actually happens... I am all for discipline, but not at all costs. Discipline must be with good reason, and sometimes you can't think of a good reason why you are getting worked up in which case you have to just step outside yourself for a minute and say 'does this really matter that much?'. A good balance of discipline and fun is what to aim for, and if you are unsure, then err on the side of fun..
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
27 Jan 10
well my daughters are not that little anymore but when they were that age, besides keeping their rooms clean, they had to sweep, dust, set the table, empty garbage cans, that sort of thing.
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
All good useful tasks, actually setting table is something that we have done - it works quite well, but probably requires a little more practice - that's a good one to work on I think. Garbage is not so practical because of our garbage arrangements, but I like the idea that she could maybe empty all the paper baskets into a carrier bag or something like that...
@drakesuyat (1063)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
do all the bed chores upon waking up. they are allowed to play all day on one condition! they should pick up the mess and return everything in order after playing.
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
She doesn't make her own bed as such, so that's something I can think about introducing - I would like to think that tidying up is just a natural consequence rather than a designated chore - but I can appreciate how frustrating it is when they don't put their stuff away.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
27 Jan 10
My son started loading the dishwasher, taking out the trash and even helping with the laundry at 7 years old. He was already picking up after himself, I started him helping me do that from the time he was old enough to play with his toys. It was just part of the deal. When he was 10, he started doing his own bathroom also,along with the other stuff, and then at 12, was doing his laundry and even learning to cook some. I think it's great when parents teach kids these things. They need to learn before they are grown...lol You could also let them help dust, my son did that sometimes, and just regular washing dishes with you.
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
She loves dusting and hoovering, but whether you could say that was actually helping or not is open to debate...well, no it's not open to debate really - it's not helpful really at all. Although it is cute to see them doing these things, I am really looking for something now where the usefulness actually overrides the cuteness! Dishwasher loading and unloading is good except that we no longer have a dishwasher..
@chulce (1537)
• United States
28 Jan 10
For actual chores. There are actually quite a few things that your child can be doing at their age. Here are some ideas for you: 1)Water plants. Teach them how much and show them how to check the soil. 2)Empty small trash cans. If you have them in the bathroom, etc. Show your child how to gather them up then dump them in your main trash. This is a big help. 3) Vacuuming. At 8, this is a good chore to have your child do. Especially with as light weight as many of the vacuums currently are. 4) Setting the dinner table. If you really want to have family time. Sit down for dinner, have your little ones help set the table. If you are afraid of them dropping plates, set up a place where you can pre-set some of the dishes to be used for dinner, or simply when it is time set the stack on the table and have your child get started. 5) Make the bed. Okay we all know how to unmake the bed, now its time to teach how to make it. Keep it simple, if they have a comforter on the bed, chances are it will cover over the sheet, just have your child simply pull the sheet up near the pillow then cover with the comforter. Hopefully, those chores will help give you a good start. Now that I have teenagers, I can't get them to help with anything. We are at a wicked stage of development and boy..... I have to agree with those who have said it "Teenagers are walking hormones in tennis shoes." Have a good day!
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
That's a great list of chores and it's actually surprising how many people have very similar lists. Vacuuming is a little beyond our powers at the moment, but setting the table, making the bed and folding and putting clothes away will be the tasks I am going to start with I think. Some things should happen anyway such as clearing the table and putting toys away, and the divide between chores and natural consequences can get a bit blurred. I guess the rule has to be, if the natural things like putting toys away doesn't happen there will be bad consequences, whereas if the chores are done, there will be good consequences...
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Ever since he was little, I have already teached him how to put back his toys or anything he puts his hands on. Even if he was too little to remember details I always remind him because it is best to train a child when he is at a young age so he gets used to it.
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
Putting toys back seems to be a common theme, guess I don't really think of that as being a helpful chore because it's their own mess - but it sure is a chore if I have to do it, so it's a good one to get started with. I really want to start with a few chores now while she is young because she has an appetite for helping out and I really want to make the most of it whilst she is still keen.
@lilyrayne (107)
• United States
27 Jan 10
I only have a step daughter and she is ten, Her dad and I have her half the time - joint custody but since she is not "mine" i don't feel right giving her chores and the only one daddy makes her do is pick up her room which usually consists of her pretending to clean it up, ahhh kids!
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
The thing is that 'chores' can be fun (maybe not when you are ten...) so I want to use this to start establishing some useful chores which are good to do and generally helpful around the house. Right now, our little one would love to have some chores, I just need to think of some...
• Canada
28 Jan 10
My oldest is 4 and she has to tidy her room, put away her laundry and she helps us use the Lysol spray and spray all the doorknobs in the house once a week. This makes her feel like she's contributing. Mind you her drawers are a mess and you have to follow her around with the spray to make sure she isn't going crazy with it but it's a start. She must also clear her dishes after her meals and either put them in the sink or on the kitchen counter. She helps me vaccum (rather I watch her push it a few times). But that's all for now. We'll add more when she's five. Hope that helps.
@livewyre (2450)
28 Jan 10
Hey sometimes my drawers are a mess, but I wouldn't want my mom to post about it on a public forum! I guess you mean drawers in a chest of drawers then?? I think that folding up clothes and putting them away would probably be a very useful thing that she can do, she does clear away her dishes, but I'm not sure I would trust her with a spray though! We do the same with the vacuum, but I can't say that it is actually very productive...