what do you do after work?

China
January 28, 2010 1:34am CST
if u r work at the office,face to the computer for all day,when u get home,what do u usually do after supper? i alway watch a movie on line, meanwhile,light the cigarette,i go to bed until half past 11 in the evening.this life make me crazy,i can't bear it any more.there is no friend around me.i work at another city,parents are in the hometown.i feel so lonely,desperated.anyone others who can give me some suggestion?i will be very appreciated.
3 responses
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
Hi shawnchang, We almost have the same situation. But the only difference is i dont smoke. I also live alone in a very busy city. From work to home, then home to work. I hate routinary activities, however its all part of the journey we have to take as woking professionals. My family is in our hometown as well, we only communicate through phone and email. I hope you too will soon accept the fact of living alone for work sake, until you will find someone to be your best company.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
woow. You can't really buy a real love. It will just come at its perfect time, usually when least expected by us. I had been into relationships before, but they simply did'nt work out good. I just keep my self busy to enjoy just the same even in a routinary way.
• China
28 Jan 10
there is no way to walk out the shadow? do you find your best company ? and i guess you don't find your love just the same as me.i believe love will bring us out of the situation.but another problem is i can't afford love.
@nautilus33 (1827)
28 Jan 10
hi! I am a teacher and have much free time. Now I am at work at the afternoon and I ave some spare time every morning till 13-14 and after 18|:30. SO after 18:30, after work, I just go home, or if I must buy something to eat or cook I first go to the store to buy the things i need. Then I come home, switch the laptop on and check my emails, then I search for some good movie and then I post here on mylot. I also cook, when there is nothing to eat, because my girlfriend is to late at work and she hasn't got time for it! So I cook and then go to meet her, because it is dark outside and it is dangerous for a girl to go alone in the dark! then we have supper, I play my happy aquarium game and then we go to bed and watch the movie I have downloaded!
• China
28 Jan 10
Thanks a lot for you share your life with me,and i found u r a so sweet boyfriend,and your couples must be very happiness.your work time is just 6 hours,what a admired job! Right now,i still alone,no girlfriend,and something which i found nobody to tell.whatever,best wishes for you two.
28 Jan 10
wow! thank you for the best respomse, I am so glad that you like it! well, my jobas a teacher is really very nice because today for example I will work only 2 hours from 16:10 to 18:30, which i think is good. I am also a translator, but it is my part-time job! Thanks again for the BEST RESPONSE!!!
@yojitpr (29)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
well honestly u cant get any new friends or spend time with your family if u didnt get out of ur zone and make some efforts.
• China
28 Jan 10
thanks,make new friends is a good idea,i will try my best for this.