When you can't trust your own family.

United States
January 28, 2010 9:31am CST
I can't even believe I am saying this, but there's just people in my family that I cannot trust anymore. I mean, my own cousin has lost all my trust and support. All my life she has been abusing me, since I was a child, and she's only a year older than me! How is that possible? Now I must admit that back then I was a bit of a push over but still, how can a child beat another child senseless? And still to this day her side of the family has no idea of the abuse, all they know is all the lies she had told them about me. That's bull. Now over the years I have grown this attitude toward her to where if she even thought of hurting me, I would hurt back and snap her back into line. It has worked for the past 5 years, but just reciently it seems to have been starting up again. Only this time without hitting, she learned to cheat people. With me, there's no way she could ever get away with it, I can sense when she's up to something before she even knows. So anyway she was spending the night at my house for a weekend and she decides she's bored and wants to have a little "fun". So what does she do? This guy she met on the internet had called her asking her if she wanted to hang out with him that night, she told him that she was over at my house and when I left the room to go to the bathroom, she gave him MY address and told him to meet her at MY house. When I found this out I was furious. That's not cool. For all she knows he could have been a serial killer or something. So he comes along and I have to sneek around my parents telling them that these guys that were coming over were friends that we haven't seen in a long time and wanted to spend some time with. So they catch us sneeking around and only give us 15 minutes to hang out with them. Now when I see these guys I notice right away they are stoners. That's all they could talk about and my cousin went along with it. And of course when she saw the guy that she met on the internet she locked lips with him. Ew! I never want to see that again, have you ever seen a spider suck the life out of it's prey alive? Gross. Then the next night she invites them over again, but this time he came alone and took over to the side of the house. She ditches me after all I did for her. Big Suprise. I get upset and walk back into the house telling my dad what had happened, he told me to go out there and tell him to leave or he would do it. So I get up off my butt and seperate them, catch them in something... EW! ... and tell him that he has to leave and she has to go inside now. That night, I tell my parents the whole truth, so furios with my cousin and I didn't want to lose my trust that I have with my parents. She ditched me... that's so not cool. Tell me if I'm right or wrong.
1 response
@Outcast (632)
• United States
28 Jan 10
Your right but the only problem I see after all the abuse you claim you are still covering for her. If I was you I would not have told your parents that the guys were friends. I would have just said what happened. I know that sounds like a rat but what would you rather have. A couisn that will stab you in the back and ditch you or your parents trust which beleive me is very hard to regain?