users must go to hell!!

useless friends - users must go to hell
@yukyrob (167)
Philippines
January 28, 2010 8:05pm CST
i hate friends come along only when they have needed you but they make lots of excuses in times you need them,, it really made me mad and disappointed..
1 person likes this
7 responses
• China
30 Jan 10
I have many friends.But some of them like you say.Some of them ,maybe one or two when i have trouble,he would help me at onec.That's is real friend. Maybe you have more friends,you can think about how many real friends in them! Real friend are when you are very happy with him.Gains and losses are not in the call.When you losing he could share with you.When you happy he could share with you.That would be enough
@surfette (673)
• United States
30 Jan 10
You can divide most people into two groups, the givers and the takers. If you are a friendly and helpful person, you are labeled as a giver. The takers can be kind on the surface, but when you really need them, they will be too busy or just possibly can't help you out. So many times I've taken the extra step to help someone and when it was my time of need, I was left standing alone. After all these years I have dropped most of my friends and only have one who I know I can count on in need or just for fun. She is my cousin and is only 12 hours older than me. We've always been close and I know that even though we don't think alike on everything, that she has my back and I have hers. Other people can be just acquaintances, but she is my only true friend.
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
29 Jan 10
People have different traits and personalties, we cannot please them all. So we should treasure those real and true friends to us. That is life... We cannot call them friends when they are only here just for the incentives they will get. True friends are here in our happy moments and even in our sad times. Have a great day :)
• China
29 Jan 10
first of all,before you be good friends ,you must know each other by heart.what you said is not a real friendship to you.
• China
29 Jan 10
Real friends are those who stand beside you sharing your joys and sorrows.
• China
29 Jan 10
well,we are having a lot a friends now and will make more than now in future. i think no matter one friend is willing to help u but has not time? or even don't want to do that. maybe he really didn't have time or other reasons to help u ,or a kink of lie? but the only thing i want to say is that all of the people are selfish. and we are individual at the begining cheer up~ u shouldn't be bored by this. i know u can make more and more friends in the future. nevermind! u will find out the friend who really have the time and really want to help u ~ trust me~ he will appear~ and good luck!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
mt wife is a friendly person. she has a lot of friends. some are not busy that they only text each other so much and some do live or work abroad that they do exchange emails. but she has friends too that only remembers her when they need something. she does entertain their text also but tell them straight to their faces that they only remembers when they need something. the other she got a text from a long lost friend that we are both shock that she still remembers my wife cellphone number. she changed her number already. and she was asking a favor. my wife turned her down and told her that she is busy. even a friendly person needs to let this people realize that this is not what friendship means.