Is it okay to say i love you?
January 29, 2010 9:17pm CST
Do you think saying "I love you" is ok? I wonder why mostly in a relationship believed in that saying...though i have been in relationships...i find it confusing to say...i thought your partner is saying that just for the sake of making you feel happy...maybe...but i still don't get the point. I used to hear those 3 words but nothing makes my heart beat faster as what others say mostly. I prefer guys who will do something nice to me rather than saying things then nothing in actions.
30 Jan 10
I think it is different from everyone, depends on their characters, shy, outspoken, ...etc. No problem say I love you to the one you love, but for a man it is very hard to do ...sometimes I'll think it is not necessary as long as I really love you by showing my concern rather than say it out. But I think Woman need it...they like to hear it saying out from his man ....since man want his woman to be happy ...why not say it out loud to let her know and make her happy?
31 Jan 10
Thanks for your opinion. Yeah maybe you are right, it really depends on the personalities of an individual. Some needs action to prove it while others need to hear it through words. The only important here is you both understand each other and even without hearing those "i love you" thing, you knew from your heart that your partner matters most and you love him in return.
31 Jan 10
I think its important for my partner (if i have) to say "i love you" to me. Because im the kind of person that don't like to guessing, i want that everything is clear for me. I like if my guy will do something nice to me too, but sometimes, i really don't understand what he means when he does that thing. I don't want to have misunderstanding between me and my partner. So I want it to be clear. If he loves me, he has to say that. I don't want something implicit. I'm afraid if i get wrong perception about what he does to me.
31 Jan 10
wow! Thank you for posting. yes it is indeed okay to say I LOVE YOU especially to your dear family.When i hear the words from my love ones I am sure happy to hear it. But i never had heard them really saying that in words to me. Of course they felt awkward saying it and same I felt awkward hearing it from them. Much better all quite and just put into actions what we like to express to our beloved that we cant say actually. hehe I LOVE YOU byp. I MISS YOU.God Bless