r u always too sensitive to others' words?
By chryslark
@chryslark (89)
China
10 responses
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
31 Jan 10
I'm pretty sensitive, although I think I hide it fairly well. I don't take criticism well - I think people are criticising me when they are perhaps just offering a suggestion.
@chryslark (89)
• China
31 Jan 10
I don't like critism either. But i will try to accept them although at the bottom of my heart i feel uncomfortable. I know that critics will help me improve.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
31 Jan 10
It has taken me years to realise that being sensitive to other people's remarks will only damage our health and so I take such remarks in my stride and if they affect me and hamper my progress in any way I will deal with them sensibly.
@chryslark (89)
• China
31 Jan 10
I do agree that being too sensitive will harm your health. you are good that you can find a way to deal with it.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Hi there Chryslark!
I can't really say. I think it depends upon the situation. When I know that I am doing the right thing, I am sensitive about other people's opinion. But when I am in doubt, when I am not confident enough that I was doing the right thing, then, that's where my being sensitive about what other people may think or say comes in.
@chryslark (89)
• China
31 Jan 10
HiI think what i need now is confidende. Once you have decided something you should be completely confident in your decision.
@alfroi635 (297)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Hi there me too im a sensitive one but i already overcome it. I don't know how I over come it, but sometimes if my loved one is the one who say bad things to me, I am still affected.
@miranda521 (427)
• China
31 Jan 10
Sometimes!but most time I didn't care what others said.yeah,I don't care!I am I!
walk yourself's road,let people talk~
@yumianjianke (1)
• China
31 Jan 10
others always say what they want and they also care others' feeling.what you need to do is just neglect them and throw them away.
@cblackink (969)
• United States
31 Jan 10
Please don't let other people have that much control over you. They don't know what it's like to live inside your skin. I don't care very much about what other people think about me. Their thoughts are not important. They are just thoughts, no better or more important than yours.
@chryslark (89)
• China
31 Jan 10
Thank you for the good points you offer. I will try not to be so sensitive but you know it is very hard thing for me. Yes thoughts are just thooughts. I will try to be myself .
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 10
I'm exactly the same! I'm easily influenced though I do try to be stronger in the influence department... Because well... If I encounter a friend doing something illegal or harming... I wouldn't want to do it myself would I? And sensitive? Hell yeah. I take everything the wrong way. .. I try to take things from a different perspective...
@chryslark (89)
• China
31 Jan 10
Please try to look at things in another way. When i feel harmed by others' words or attitudes , i will comfort myself by saying that they r just words they mean nothing .
@doormouse (4599)
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31 Jan 10
i'm the complete opposite,i don't care what people think of me,they can say what they like,i'm not easily influenced either,i'm very stubborn,my mum hates it,she thinks i should be sensitive and stuff
@chryslark (89)
• China
31 Jan 10
No, i admire you a lot . I think you got a tough character. I think people like you easily get success because you have firm belief.
