being dominated by someone?

@emediloy (701)
Indonesia
January 30, 2010 8:02pm CST
I know some of women have a good carrier, good financial. they more stable than her partner. Then they became more dominated in their relationship. what do you think about that? if you are in that position, would you do that? and if you were that man, would you mind with that situation?
3 responses
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
I would rather not be dominated by a partner.I would rather not also dominate over my partner.I believe a relationship should be balanced.you can make decisions;he can make decisions.that way,there'll be no issues of stepping over each others' ego.a good relationship is one where you can both decide on what's good for each other.
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 10
Hi coco..good opinion, i definetely agree with you, relationship should have 2 point, take and give, so that it will be balance, thanx anyway. happy mylotting!
@allknowing (86828)
• India
31 Jan 10
You will be surprised to hear who dominates me. It is the workforce. I used to have 2 and 3 maids taking care of everything around me. But nowadays they are a rare commodity. They take full advantage of the situation and dictate terms which I have to humbly accept. They will do whatever pleases them and the most annoying thing is that they stay away for days together. The earlier lot who worked for me for several years had to get married and obviously they are not in my life but these days getting maids is very difficult and even if one finds one it is not what it used to be!
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 10
wow..you must be very busy..yes its true, i have a sister who work busy like you and she found that very difficult to get a maid. i know it is very hard for a working mom to choose the priority between carrier and family. and the best way is find a maid to helping.thanx for response, good luck!
@danitykane (3190)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
hi emediloy, I'm a girl and don't see any problem if a woman is more financially stable than her man. I don't think I'm a domineering type of person. I know that it is normal for a guy to take charge of the finances and the one who must have a good job in the family but, in some cases there are women who are more capable to support the family or be in charge of the finances. I really do know how it feels when a girl is more financially stable than his man. I had boyfriend who was so simple (which I appreciate by the way) and doesn't have fabulous career and all. I do understand his status because, I loved him at that time. But you know, you can smell some insecurities from him and I can't deny the fact that he envied my profession and the things that I do. I'm not being sarcastic or whatsoever but, it became one of the reason why we broke-up. Some guys don't simply understand or don't accept the fact that some are better than them in some areas. Happy Lotting!