How would you react if your spouse is cheating on you?

India
February 1, 2010 7:04am CST
Dear Mylotters How would you react to your spouse cheating on you? Although, a BACHELOR like me should not be asking such questions, I just want to know the way mylotters react to situation! If I were cheated by my spouse, I would call for a divorce !
5 responses
@toxicash (41)
• India
1 Feb 10
well im in class x and i had never got married ....but if i were married she cheated on i would get the man killed react as if i didnt know anything n behave as i behaved before i came to know about that....
• India
1 Feb 10
ha ha! Nice one man! I thought you were going to say: I WOULD RATHER SEE THEM MARRY!
@Thunderll (102)
• United States
1 Feb 10
I imagine I would react very badly. Screaming, crying, throwing things around the room bad. Yeah, I kind of have a temper. After sufficiently cursing out my husband and whoever he slept with, I'd go into my room, pack what I could and hop in the car. Divorce would follow soon after. I'm insanely in love with him, but I've already promised myself, and those that care for me, that I won't stay in certain situations. That would be one of them. There is nothing that would make cheating alright. There's no, 'It was just one time!' or 'I was drunk!' No excuses. Even if I did stay, I wouldn't be able to trust him. I may forgive eventually, but I think it would be impossible for me to forget. Every time he was a few minutes late from wherever, I'd be wondering if he was banging the neighbor or something. It would just never be the same after finding out something like that, so why bother sticking around?
@toxicash (41)
• India
1 Feb 10
well im in clas x and ive never got married.but if i were married and came to know that my wife is cheating on me i would have got her boyfriend killed and reacted as if i dont know anything and behave as i behaved before i came to know about it.
@maclanis (2382)
• Belgium
1 Feb 10
I'm not married myself, but I do have a boyfriend. I'm not sure how I would react. I love him so much, and couldn't stand the thought of him being with another woman. But breaking up with him? I don't know what I would do without him. I think I'd actually have to be in the situation to know how I would react. It also depends on how it happened I guess, or how long it has been happening. If he actually were in love with her, I think I'd definitely break up with him.
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
I will be very angry, jealous, disappointed, and mad! Since divorce is not legal in my country, I might ask him to leave then file for annulment.