Thank God my mother is getting a divorce! Please pray for her!

@free_man (7335)
United States
February 1, 2010 2:31pm CST
Well I am the happiest woman right now my mother in law is finally talking divorce. She married a man that everyone was suspicious of. Including the preacher that she asked to marry them. But today was the last staw she told him today that she didn't need a gigolo to take care of. This man had a motor home to drive around in when she married him and it was falling apart, she let him drive around in a brand new truck (her truck) and he has wrecked it and tore the transmission, and brakes up on it. Got her to repair a tractor that didn't need anything wrong with it landed up spending a thousand dollars on it. Now he wants her to spend more money and not put money back in the bank. Tried to force her to sell the tractor today and that was the last straw. Wants her to sell it to support him and she just blew up. She talked to someone she knows and they told her she can have a divorce in 30 days. Thank God she made him sign a prenuptial. She is gtting ready for that divorce. Please pray that this comes ASAP. This man has been doing all kinds of things but nothing to help. He don't pay any of the bills he don't help in the house he goes off all day and does nothing. He has dragged her health down and she is finally getting sick and tired of it.If you have read any of the other discussions I have put on here you will know that we think he has been putting something in her food or drinks to get rid of her.We have been praying for this since she married him. He don't buy groceries and that was the deal she gave him when they married. She told us today that in the couple of years that they have been married he hasn't brought anything. What would you do if your mother was in a situation like this? Wouldn't you want your mom out of this marriage?
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@cream97 (29163)
• United States
1 Feb 10
Yes, I would want my mother out of this situation for good! This man that she is married to is nothing but a big ole free loader! He is a scrub! He needs to get his own things, instead of tearing up your mother's things. He is a total wreck! No wonder the preacher was suspicious of this man. He is a good for nothing kind of man. I guess the preacher was afraid to tell your mother why, because he had seen how much your mother was madly in love with him. Well, now she sees him for what he really is. A scum ball!
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@Thoroughrob (11748)
• United States
1 Feb 10
I hope things work out for the best for her. She needs for good things to happen.
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@free_man (7335)
• United States
1 Feb 10
Hi Thoroughrob. She does deserve the best. She raised all of her children by herself. She worked as a beautician she had her own shop in Florida and did quite well. She took every dime she could and saved and scrimped to make sure she could retire in easy. This SCUM BALL has done nothing but try his best to get into her wallet that is all he has thought about since they were married. Bet when he met her all he could see was dollar signs. She is a great Lady and deserves a better man then this guy. I won't call him a man cause he isn't nothing but a low life SCUM BAG. I would never marry to get someones money. It is love for me and that is all I would marry a person for.
@RachelleNH (1407)
• United States
1 Feb 10
Thank God-I'll pray for her! Why are people so crazy these days? I got my divorce in 30 days-but I had to post a notice in the newspaper because I couldn't find him. Sounds like she did all the right stuff with the prenup! Smart lady. By the way, my ex was just like that-not paying for anything but himself.
@free_man (7335)
• United States
1 Feb 10
Hi RachelleNH. Thank you for your prayers. I can't see how anyone that claims to love someone can do them any wrong. If you love someone I think it is only right you give 100% of what ever it takes. I don't understand people that think when they are married they don't have to do anything to help each other.
@lelin1123 (15635)
• Puerto Rico
6 Feb 10
I'm so glad she has decided to realize what was going on. He is a big time "USER" that does not need to be in your mother-in-laws life. Please make sure you watch over her till he is gone because from what you have said now and earlier I don't trust him to try and do more harm to her. Good luck!
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@free_man (7335)
• United States
6 Feb 10
Hi Lelin. I am happy that she has decided to get out of this before he destroys her life any more. I can't wait till she finally tells this LOSER USER to hit the road. She keeps telling him she is getting sick and tired of his BULL and he keeps it up. I don't think he thinks she will go through with it. I think he is trying to figure out a way to make her pay him for his time in this marriage. You know like alimony or something like that. He is a SUCM BAG DOG LYING USER he tries to use everyone. I let him know right after they got married he acted real friendly to me and I just made it real clear he had nothing to say to me that I would be interested in hearing. When he comes over I move away. He knows I can't stand his UGLY USING DOG SELF. That is I guess why he don't try to talk to me much.
@lelin1123 (15635)
• Puerto Rico
6 Feb 10
I seriously can't wait till you write to say that he is out of the picture completely. That your mom is no longer in danger of losing everything or God forbid her life. Everything you have stated in your earlier discussions could have been taken from a lifetime movie that I have seen so many of. Take care and good luck to all of you.
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@free_man (7335)
• United States
23 Feb 10
Hi Lelin. Thanks she has told him he is on his way out. He has straighten up his act a bit. I think he realizes he is going to be out on the street soon. It does remind me of lifetime movies I have seen. I have been so worried about her, but she is getting a lot better. I can hardly wait till this man is gone too. I think she is giving him a chance to make a few bucks to move on. He has been working for his son and has been saving every dime he makes. So soon I hope and pray.
@sknsknskn (393)
• India
23 Feb 10
hey r u mad.............this is ur mother...man...whats wrong with u...........shes...born u....