Return to sender...have you ever returned a gift..back to the sender?
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
Philippines
February 2, 2010 11:24pm CST
Hello dear friends,mylotters,mere bhai/s,sister/s,
Have you ever returned a gift back to the sender?
What's the big reason for returning it back to the sender?
Do you think it is proper?
I did,i return a gift back to the sender.
It was a gift in form of money.
The reason is...i want to prove that person that,money doesn't matter to me.
The person called me,being so mad of what i had done.
Have you ever done such thing dear friends?
Any gifts...things or money,have you ever returned any?
Waiting for your responses and have a good day everyone

6 responses

@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
yes my dear...the situation directed me to do so
i guess it is serve for it's purpose then...
thank you my dear brother
i guess it is serve for it's purpose then...
thank you my dear brother
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
hello dear bhai,
If the gift comes from you,i will never return it even if you won't consider me as your didi anymore(hahaha)
Oh dear...i know this sounds bad,i am bad for returning the gift.
But,i know he deserves to be treated like that,for breaking my heart(wahhhhhh
)
Sorry my dear...i hope i am not that bad at all
)
Sorry my dear...i hope i am not that bad at all

@arunmails (3011)
• India
3 Feb 10
I have not returned any gifts to the sender.. I will not do that... whether he/she is good or bad, somehow I had crossed in their mind.. I don't want to get back that impression...
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
hello arun,
I know i sounds to rude for what i did.
I know it is not right to return a gift.
But i am sure you will understand what i did once you find out the reason why i did it.(but,i can't give complete details in here)
anyway,thanks for your response and comment dear friend.
have a good day always

@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
hello yoyo,
Welcome to MyLot
I understand your feeling and hope you and your friend will find a way to settle the misunderstanding.
Thanks for your reply and enjoy mylotting 
I understand your feeling and hope you and your friend will find a way to settle the misunderstanding.
Thanks for your reply and enjoy mylotting 
@yoyo156 (1)
• United States
8 Mar 13
Hello Jaiho,
I just got a returned gift a have sent 2 months ago. It was for my beloved friend for her birthday. she put a note saying she wanted me to spend it on my upcoming birthday.
It is so irritating to me I sent her email saying how rude and mean she is.
We have been best friends but recently she does't pick a phone saying she want to have quite time and telling me how much she loves me.
She pissed me off to the extent you could not emagine
It is too rude to send a gift back!
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@neededhope (1078)
• United States
3 Feb 10
I quess it depends on the reasons why they send it in the first place. Meaning if they send you money because your in a poor situation and you need help. This could be the only way and means of them helping. So it would be of an insult to send it back to them. If you were telling them how hard of a time you were having just to talk to them about it. And they said something crued or hurtful and than sent money to cheer you up. Of course I would send it back. if they want to just slap in your face and your pouring your heart out. Than screw them you don't need them or there money.
Honestly I've told my parents about my financial issues and told them not sure how I"m going to make it thru the month. And just overwhelmed. The day I was leaving to come back to my home my parents handed me some money. I looked at them and they told me take it. I broke down crying. I didn't want to take it but if I didn't I know my parents they would have just sent it anyways. They told me it's what parents do for there kids. If they can do it for anybody else they can do it for there kids.
So like I said it depends why they sent it and who.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
hello need,
It's a gift,someone sent me that money as a gift.
But things went wrong between us...and,i decided to send back the money.
So,the person won't think bad...,that,i only keep friendship with him...all becoz of money.
Well,if that money comes from my parents...i won't give it back even if circumstances went wrong.
I know parents will always be there for us,to give the best help that they can give.
Thanks for your response and have a good day always



@neededhope (1078)
• United States
6 Feb 10
yes if a friendship went sour because they thought you were using them only for money than yes I would as well send the money back. I wouldn't want to have no part of it.
And yes even if things go sour with our parents. There still our parents so we'll or they'll give over it sometime within our lives. Cause either way they are our parents.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
3 Feb 10
personally, i think it is not a good thing to return a gift back to the sender. the sender will really have this impression that you hate him or her. but if it is a gift from an ex, i can be returned just to end the relationship properly or shall we say, closed book. 

@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
hello neil,
Somehow it does look like that my friend.
I want to close any relationship i had with this person.
But,he can't accept it,(he maybe doesn't like the idea,..i don't know)
And,returning money he gifted me,is to prove that...money doesn't matter to me.
He can have his money for all i care.
Maybe it was an insult for him...(good for him anyway...hehehe basta galit ako
)
Well...let's see what will happen next 

)
Well...let's see what will happen next 
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
Miss you my dear bonita mia...Oh no!! why did you returned it? Com'on...what's the matter? Well, i will accept that if that money has no malice behind it...I mean if it was cleanly given why not? I don't know really your reasons behind why, but, still whatever it was, i respect your decision..what can I say..I would appreciate your decision if the reason behind would be fair enough... Cheers..
Next time give it to me...
Mobhomeir here..
Mobhomeir here..
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
22 Feb 10
hello Martin,
It has no malice at all...the money is a birthday gift to me actually.
But,when things went wrong(started to goes wrong between us..me and the sender)
I decided to send it back...
Well..i think this money really is one of the reason why...i'm breaking my heart now(bwhuhuhuhu...maybe becoz i insulted the person
)
Miss you too amigo 

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Miss you too amigo 
@healthbeauty (483)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
No. because it seems different. If you return back the gift that they give I think they will be upset. They will think that you didn't like it. Just accept it and Thank them for giving you a gift even it is a money or thing. There is nothing wrong in receiving a gift even you have money still let them see that you appreciate what they gave you.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
hello healthbeauty,
I know it is wrong/bad to return a gift in any form,it could be money or something.
But,in some circumstances,i think it is considerable.
I am not justifying what i did,but i know you will understand if only i could give you exact details
Thanks again for your response and have a good day always
Thanks again for your response and have a good day always





