Why People Have To Leave You ?

Philippines
February 3, 2010 1:07am CST
My best ever bonding brother (my bestfriend) leaves us now! I dont know what to do, so painful! Why people can't stay? why they have to leave!?
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@rsa101 (40987)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
Oh yeah I guess everything at one point in time people leave us for a reason. Well I guess your brother would have some valid reason why he is leaving you. For that you should bid him goodbye and good luck in where ever he will go.
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
yes, he would work abroad, it was an unexpected flight. We were both shocked with the news. Though we are happy to think he would have a good job there but the point of his departure was so painful. It is really hard. i never witness his departure at the airport.. huhuhu
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@rsa101 (40987)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
Well just be strong. I know he will be return back and maybe a better person because of this. As for you I think this is the time that you prove to your brother that you can also stand on your own and be independent too. Maybe this is the reason why you need to be separated with someone to give you space to grow on your own.
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
In life, there are a lot of uncertainties. There are nothing in this world such as constant except for changes. We have to accept the fact that people do come and go, especially if it's for the better. I don't exactly know what kind of situation you are talking about in which your brother/best friend left you. But whatever that is, I am pretty sure he is happy right now. You just have to be happy with him too and move on with your own life.
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
He is gone for working abroad. I am happy for him, but I and his gf just miss him so much. Maybe we can recover later, we just miss him now...
@thebestmom (1104)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
you as sibling are the most knowledgable to the answer. it maybe because of work, because of family, or he wants to be independent. whatever the reason, dont be sad. it may be for the better. with the technologies available today, you can still communicate with each other as often as you want.
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
That's the reality of life and there's nothing we can do about it, everybody must leave to find their own happiness and where they could find great satisfaction in life, it can be severely painful but that's the real truth that we must accept and endure. I've been there once and the pain is..oh gosh..unimaginable!but I get on with it and accepted that everything in this world is just temporary.
@chazzief (237)
• Malaysia
3 Feb 10
In my religion, I have been taught that our life and everything around us in this work is just a rental from God. He is the real owner and HE has the right to take all the things around us no matter how much we love the things. It's part of God's test to see if the people is faithful enough to believe in him and to trust him with what he has arranged upon him. When your friend leaving us, you might feel sad, but somehow you might realize sooner or later that there's always a rainbow behind the dark cloudy days.
• Indonesia
3 Feb 10
Nothing last forever in this world. Everybody will be gone, sooner or later, included you, and me, but we never know when that time will happened. I know that losing someone is so sad. Left by someone, even though the person is still alive its a painful, i think it will be more painful, if that person leave us forever. But that's life. There is always the opposite of a thing. If there is a meeting so one day there will be separation. That is part of life that we can't avoid. Be patient and wise to face all of this. And trust me, that everything's gonna be okay. Keep smilling
@hexeduser22 (7418)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
It's inevitable, we just have to be strong for the people who is still there for us. Life does not end there. I'm sorry for your lost