Experienced a relationship that didnt work?
By jarred
@jarred (177)
Philippines
February 3, 2010 8:19am CST
I'm sure most of you guys experienced this, why? Because that is how life is, don't expect a happy ending because these so called "happy ending" only exist in romantic movies. Say you did experience a happy ending, not to be a discourager but I do believe that if it's still happy, it's not finish yet. Would you always be happy? No. Therefore, expect a relationship that is capable of tearing hearts. What are the reasons for these unsuccessful relationships? Well, you could make an endless list of reasons. In my point of view, these unsuccessful relationship builds up a person's personality, gain experience, strengthen a person's emotional control, which all will be used when you meet, in what i truly believe, the right person you are destined with, at the right time. This is not a happy ending, it's the start of something happy, with of course, no happy ending. See the cycle?
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1 response
@abhi_bangal (3686)
• India
3 Feb 10
A happy ending is what we all crave for. I am also no exception. And as you say, I do except a happy ending to almost all and everything. And you are right that such 'happy endings' are only in romantic stories only. I don’t know why I expect this, but the reason might be that, I don’t like to see anyone in trouble. I feel contented if the lifestory goes according to my expectations. It does then satisfy me. After all happy endings are in itself fairy tales, isn’t it?
You are right when you say that happy endings do not come easy or in fact exist in the other world. You have to go through all the hardships before you see the light of the day. Going through rough patches or ‘bad patch’ as it is so often called, bares fruits. If there are no pains then there are no gains. ‘No gains without pains’. You might have seen movies or read stories, as you have mentioned that you do like to read stories with happy endings, the majority of the story revolves around hardships. Once it is gone, then ‘… and they lived happily ever after’ is what we might have read many a time. If anyone is ready to go through all this then the relationship is good otherwise, here I am to say that my relationship did not work. And I do have that experience.
